Men might not experience the miracle of childbirth firsthand, but that doesn’t mean they miss out on the fun! As we navigate the chaos of life with two little ones, the exhaustion is real—but the perks of pregnancy are worth celebrating. While my partner, Sarah, is relieved to be done with pregnancy (round two was a challenge), I find myself reminiscing about the unique benefits that came with her carrying our child.
Sure, the sleepless nights with a newborn are upon us, but I enjoyed some distinct advantages during the months leading up to our baby’s arrival. Here are six pregnancy perks for dads-to-be that made the journey enjoyable:
- Indulgent Snacks
Who can resist the call of junk food? With Sarah craving all sorts of treats during her pregnancy, our pantry turned into a treasure trove of goodies. It felt like I was back in college, surrounded by chips, cookies, and all things delicious! - Boys’ Nights Out
Nine months of pregnancy can be tiring, and often Sarah preferred a quiet night in. This opened the door for me to enjoy more evenings out with friends, which is a rare opportunity in the chaotic world of parenting. - Cost Savings
You wouldn’t believe how much money we saved by not buying alcohol! With only one person ordering drinks, our dining bills were slashed in half. Plus, I got to be the designated driver, which made for a win-win situation! - Cozy Days In
Sarah is usually the one with a packed schedule, but pregnancy brought a welcome change. With her needing to rest, we had plenty of lazy days watching Netflix together. “Oh, your back hurts? Let’s just relax and binge-watch a series!” I wasn’t complaining! - Dad Bod Justification
Why have I packed on a few extra pounds? I’m just supporting my partner in her journey! It’s all in the name of solidarity—at least that’s what I tell myself as I grab another slice of pizza. - Hormonal Perks
Sure, hormones can lead to some wild mood swings, like when Sarah went from laughing to crying to devouring ice cream in seconds. But sometimes, those same hormones brought about some unexpected romantic moments. Talk about a rollercoaster!
See? While we might not get to experience the joys of carrying a child, there are plenty of benefits for expectant dads. From indulgent snacks and cost savings to cozy movie nights and a little extra indulgence, it’s not all bad. Just don’t forget about the adorable little one that arrives at the end of this journey!
If you’re interested in more about the journey towards parenthood, check out this post on home insemination techniques. Plus, for anyone considering their options, Cryobaby offers great resources and kits. Also, for those exploring fertility services, Hopkins Medicine is an excellent resource to consider.
In summary, pregnancy may be a challenging time, but it also offers some fun and unique advantages for dads-to-be. From late-night snacks to unexpected hormone-driven moments, there’s plenty to enjoy while waiting for the new addition to the family!