I’m a Supermom, and That’s Absolutely Fine!

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You might have come across various essays debating motherhood, with some voices claiming to speak for mothers without actually being one. So, let me share my perspective as a proud Supermom!

As a mother, my priority is to nurture my children and be present in their lives. And you know what? That’s perfectly acceptable. While I do have a job, it doesn’t mean I’m missing out on precious moments with my kids. Supermoms are capable of juggling it all! We brew coffee, whip up breakfast, dress the children, take a quick sip of lukewarm coffee, hop in the shower, and somehow manage to re-dress a child who decided to go rogue. We chug cold coffee, throw in a load of laundry, and wipe away sticky hands—all while trying to remember if we brushed our teeth!

I’m fortunate to have a supportive partner, Jake, who helps as much as he can. However, when he ruptured his Achilles tendon a couple of months ago, I quickly realized how much he contributes at home. Suddenly, I was the sole chef, housekeeper, and bedtime storyteller after a long day at work. The exhaustion was real!

Traditionally, the man is seen as the provider and protector. But many mothers, particularly single moms, gracefully navigate both roles daily. Take my friend Sarah, for instance. She’s been the rock of her family while her husband serves overseas. Or consider my colleague, who, after becoming a young mom, completed her degree online while raising her kids alone. They are true Supermoms.

It’s perfectly fine to enjoy cooking and caring for your loved ones. I often find joy in setting the dinner table and serving a delicious meal. I’m surrounded by inspiring women—my mother, my mother-in-law, my friends—all Supermoms in their own right. They juggle careers, volunteer work, and family life, giving their best every single day.

Sure, the pressure can be intense, but many Supermoms relish the challenge. I adore my job and take pride in my work. I love the little moments at the park with my kids and the cozy dinners with my husband, where we share stories about our days. It’s about balance and finding joy in both our professional and personal lives.

This morning, my curious 3-year-old asked who the leader of the Power Rangers is, and I shared that leadership can be shared—like between him and his dad. It warms my heart to foster an environment where my boys see both men and women as equals. Just as I want them to envision women as doctors or presidents, I also want them to witness their dad helping with chores and engagement in family life. We’ve come so far from previous generations, and I feel grateful for the choices I can make every day.

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In summary, being a Supermom is about embracing the chaos, finding joy in our daily routines, and setting a positive example for our children. We can have it all, and that’s perfectly okay!