10 Life Lessons I Want to Share with My Kids One Day

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I keep a journal titled “Messages for My Kids.” It’s my backup plan for those unexpected moments when life catches me off guard—like when I might trip on the sidewalk while running errands.

In this journal, I pour out my thoughts with complete honesty. I share personal insights that I might struggle to express face-to-face. My goal is for my kids to truly understand who I am—not just the parent who provides for them, but the person I am now and who I aspire to be in the future. They deserve to know my quirks, my mistakes, and my beliefs. While they’re still years away from reading it, I thought I’d share a few entries with you.

1. When you get into your car in a busy parking lot, don’t waste time scrolling through your phone. Put it in reverse and back out; someone is waiting for that space.
2. Losing your temper will always bring regret. Anger is a natural feeling, but reacting impulsively can lead to remorse. Learn to pause and express your emotions when you’re calm, so you can handle them better.
3. If you find yourself unable to tip your valet, it’s better to park your own car.
4. Trust your gut feelings—if something feels off, it likely is. Your conscience is there to guide you, so don’t overthink your instincts.
5. I’ve regretted far too many words spoken in anger, and I hope you face this less. Not because you feel less, but because you choose kindness above all. That’s what I want most for you—be kind. In the end, nothing will bring me greater pride.
6. From the moment your mother shared the news of your arrival, I loved you deeply. But hey, there were tough moments too!
7. Always look at your server when they’re talking to you. The menu will still be there when they finish.
8. Remember: what happens in Vegas? Just your dignity. So, keep it with you!
9. Your friends may not always need your advice, but they will value your willingness to listen. It’s perfectly fine to not have the right words—just be there for them.
10. Experience college in a city far away from home. Your hometown will always be there, but go out and discover new cultures, cuisines, and perhaps even fall in love—who knows where life might lead you?

Life is an adventure, and I hope these insights help guide you along the way. For more insights on parenting and life lessons, check out our other posts at Home Insemination Kit.

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Summary

In this heartfelt message, I share ten vital lessons I hope to pass on to my kids, emphasizing the importance of kindness, patience, and personal growth. From practical advice about everyday situations to deeper insights about emotional well-being, these lessons reflect the values I want to instill in them as they navigate their own journeys.