Reflecting on my 20 years of knowing my partner, this year marks our 15th wedding anniversary. From the moment we met, there was an undeniable spark, and I just knew we were destined to be together. Back then, a strong marriage was all about spontaneous dates and endless romance. Fast forward to today, and my understanding of a healthy relationship has matured to encompass teamwork, shared responsibilities, and an unspoken agreement about my obsession with binge-watching reality TV.
Despite the shift from date nights to late-night diaper changes, our bond has only strengthened. Here are 25 genuine indicators that your marriage is built to last—none of which involve daily bouquets of flowers.
- You can’t imagine watching your favorite shows without each other and feel a twinge of guilt if you accidentally watch an episode solo.
- He surprises you with your favorite coffee after school drop-off, remembering your exact order.
- You find comfort in his feet brushing against yours while you sleep.
- He doesn’t bat an eye when you hand him the kids as soon as he walks in the door, and you announce your plans to head out.
- Financial decisions no longer require permission from each other.
- You’ve come to terms with the fact that he will never load the dishwasher.
- He understands that taking out the trash is not your forte.
- He’s given up on buying you fancy lingerie, knowing flannel pajamas are your true love language.
- Watching him fold laundry can surprisingly ignite a spark.
- When he says, “Mom already said no,” you both know you’re united against the kids.
- He’s seen you at your most vulnerable and still finds you attractive.
- He lovingly explores the changes in your body, seeing beyond the physical to the woman he fell for.
- You’ve shared enough moments that a little flatulence doesn’t bother you.
- He never questions your shoe purchases, while you pretend not to see his latest car parts.
- You both still jam out to ’80s music, claiming it as the greatest era.
- He instinctively knows what drink to order for you while you’re in the restroom.
- He insists on dancing to your wedding song at every wedding you attend.
- You’re both comfortable admitting when you’re wrong, with a promise to keep it between you.
- He respects your playful declaration that you’d leave him for a celebrity crush.
- You both give each other honest feedback about haircuts and fashion choices.
- You stuck by him through his intense workout phase, and its aftermath.
- A shared glance across a crowded room can communicate, “Let’s get out of here.”
- You’ve survived countless school recitals and agreed on your kid’s musical “talents.”
- Date nights are now a quick drink after errands, and you cherish those moments together.
- You both know there’s no one else who can handle your quirks quite like each other.
Marriage isn’t always easy, and amidst the daily chaos of life and parenting, it’s easy to forget the love that brought you together. However, if you look closely, you’ll find plenty of signs that say your partner would choose you all over again—cleaning up after a sick child at 2 a.m. notwithstanding.
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Summary
A strong marriage is defined by mutual support, shared responsibilities, and unwavering love that endures through life’s ups and downs. From enjoying simple moments together to navigating the challenges of parenting, these 25 signs highlight the true strength of a lasting union.