In today’s world, instilling the concept of consent in our children is essential. After reading an article discussing the importance of teaching consent to young kids, I found myself particularly frustrated by some of the opposing viewpoints, especially those from individuals and organizations with outdated and harmful perspectives.
For clarity, I have had a disagreement with one of these individuals in the past, and I can assure you that the claims made were far from accurate. As for the organization in question, they promote a narrow, unwelcoming agenda that doesn’t reflect the diverse families we see today.
I truly believe that teaching kids about their right to express consent is vital. Caregivers should empower children to understand that they control their bodies and have a voice in their interactions. If you’re against teaching kids about consent, then perhaps you’re not cut out for parenting or educating.
While I don’t claim to be a flawless parent, I prioritize fostering my children’s sense of agency. They’ve known about the concept of consent since they began to speak. It’s much easier to teach children to respect a “yes” or a “no” early on, without needing to delve into explicit discussions about sex—though that can be part of it too.
A Personal Experience
For instance, I remember when my daughter was just three years old. One day, my partner playfully squeezed her and she promptly turned around, asserting, “Daddy, I didn’t give you consent to squeeze my tush!” He acknowledged her feelings, apologized, and asked if he could squeeze her again. She laughed and said yes.
That moment filled me with pride for many reasons. My daughter confidently expressed herself and wasn’t afraid to set boundaries. It also demonstrated that adults can admit when they are wrong, reinforcing that learning is a lifelong journey—even for parents.
Even if research supports consent-based education—which it does—personal experiences can be just as impactful. Familiarity with the language of consent can lead to significant emotional and relational benefits as children grow older.
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Conclusion
In summary, teaching consent to children, starting from a young age, is crucial in fostering their self-awareness and confidence. It lays the groundwork for healthy relationships and empowers them to express their boundaries clearly.