Not too long ago, the pressure I felt to meticulously plan out summers for my kids loomed over me like a relentless storm cloud. I was determined to fill every moment of their summer break with enriching experiences, most of which meant scrambling to sign them up for day camps months in advance.
The stakes become even higher with overnight camps. Registration often opens while the school year is still fresh, and I’ve found myself racing against the clock, competing with other parents in a frenzied rush to secure spots in the most sought-after programs. These camps, akin to the Ritz-Carlton of summer fun, come with hefty price tags—like the YMCA, where two weeks can set you back over $2,500, not to mention the additional costs for gear and supplies. I confess, I’ve spent countless summers shuttling my kids to various locations, some requiring flights, only for them to decide they didn’t want to return.
But this year, I’m taking a different approach. My decision to forgo the camp experience isn’t just about saving a significant amount of money or avoiding potential credit card debt. I’m opting out of the structured, choreographed agendas of organized camps and the seemingly innocent YMCA.
Instead, we will embrace the luxury of unplanned days. While we won’t be lounging on the couch glued to screens, we’ll be enjoying the beach, journaling, and visiting local libraries when we need a break from the sun. With the absence of a rigid schedule, we can explore nearby towns, check out local museums, and dive into adventures that suit our family’s needs as they arise.
This summer isn’t about complete laziness; rather, it’s about enjoying the freedom to make spontaneous choices. We’ll engage in local habitats, sail, play Bingo, swim, and explore tidal pools together. Perhaps the lack of plans is just what we all need.
With 77 days of freedom before us, our goal of “no plans” might just turn out to be the best decision. The money we save could even fund a mountain getaway or a fun golf cart, but for now, we’ll see how things unfold. After a week of managing the lively energy of two active boys, a spirited daughter, and a toddler with special needs, I might be reminded of why camps exist. Yet, I’m determined to embrace the long days of adventure, hoping they blend into one joyful memory of a delightful summer.
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In summary, this summer, I’m stepping away from the chaos of camp schedules to embrace a more flexible and relaxed approach with my children. With spontaneous adventures and quality family time at the forefront, I believe this summer will be a memorable one, full of experiences that can’t be counted.