As someone who has officially entered my 40s, I find myself surrounded by teenagers and their opinions. Recently, I stumbled across yet another slideshow titled “Things Women Should Avoid After 30.” One of the ridiculous suggestions? Ditch the big hoop earrings.
My reaction? A hearty middle finger to that nonsense. Seriously, who are you to dictate what I can wear? I’ve cherished hoop earrings for ages, and I just snagged a stunning pair that dangles to my shoulders. My inner free spirit is all about that gypsy vibe, hoop earrings and bangles included. Yet, some young adult thinks they can tell me I’ve aged out of wearing them? Absolutely not.
Honestly, it’s the very age that supposedly marks me as “old” that has empowered me to stop caring about societal norms regarding fashion or behavior. I got my first tattoo at 40, dyed my hair teal this year, and you know what? It looks fabulous. My favorite footwear? A trusty pair of Doc Martens. I dare any young person online, likely younger than some of my oldest clothes, to challenge my right to wear them.
You know what women really shouldn’t do after turning 30? They shouldn’t tell other women how to live their lives. They shouldn’t accept the unrealistic expectations imposed by others. They shouldn’t stifle their true selves to fit outdated standards. They shouldn’t feel pressured to listen to anyone proclaiming, “You can’t do that.” Women shouldn’t let those with less life experience bully them into submission.
How can we inspire our daughters to believe they can be anything they desire if we yield to the opinions of the youth about wearing hoop earrings past 30? No way. I reject the idea that there’s a specific way a woman over 30 should dress or express herself. I was never one for peer pressure, and that only strengthens as I age.
Listen up, young ones: You haven’t lived long enough to set rules for me. Once you reach my age, then you can have your say. In the meantime, I’ll flaunt any length of skirt I want, paired with my well-loved Converse sneakers.
And just for the record, it’s the younger women who often compliment my teal hair the most. Even they aren’t buying into that outdated narrative.
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In summary, let’s embrace our individuality and resist the pressure to conform to any arbitrary standards. It’s important to celebrate our choices and encourage others to do the same, regardless of age.