Dear Sweet Middle Child,
I see you nestled between your brothers, a unique gem in our lively family. You may not yet partake in all the activities your older brother enjoys, but your acceptance of this reality warms my heart. I can’t help but smile at the mischievous grin that appears when he faces the consequences of his antics; you’re storing up wisdom, learning what to avoid.
You don’t crave attention because I often lacked the energy to give it. With two little ones to navigate, I was stretched thin while your brother bounced around like a firecracker. My memory of those early days is a blur, but I can see how much you thrive in your own imaginative world, content to explore without constant supervision.
Yet, I know life sometimes feels unfair. Still, you always find a way to adapt and shine. You embody the roles of both a big sister and a little sister so gracefully. Sandwiched between two brothers who adore you, even if they don’t say it often enough, you navigate this family with a blend of love and strength. Since you didn’t have the solo time with me like your older brother did before you arrived, or the moments alone after your younger brother started school, we cherish our special times together. I can see how much they mean to you.
I remember when I had to stop carrying you because your baby brother joined us just as you were finding your feet. At first, I noticed your disappointment, but soon you transformed that into determination. You reached out for my hand instead, igniting a spark of independence within you. Before long, you were walking on your own, eager to help with the baby and growing faster than I could have imagined.
Your resilience is remarkable. You know how to nurture and accept that sometimes, the answer is “Not yet.” This has shaped you into a patient and brave soul. You understand that great things take time, and your stubbornness fuels your drive. You push boundaries and seek to be seen, all while giving so much love to those around you.
You have profoundly influenced me. You expanded my capacity for love in ways I never thought possible. Before you, I wondered if I could love another child as fiercely as I loved your brother. You taught me that my heart had room to grow. You showed me that I could be a dedicated mother to more than one child, sharing my love and energy, even when exhaustion hits. Your light has made every sleepless night worth it.
Your presence is a precious gift to our family. While some may believe that being a middle child is a disadvantage, I see you thriving in your role. You embrace the unique opportunity of having two siblings, finding joy in your place among them. I know that may shift someday—perhaps when your brother gets his license—but for now, my dear girl, keep being determined, patient, and resilient. Your gifts, though they may sometimes feel overlooked in this bustling household, are always appreciated.
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In summary, you are a remarkable middle child whose strength and love enrich our family. Never forget how special you are.