A recent article in a leading publication has taken aim at mothers for opting for shorter hairstyles. We’ve all encountered the infamous “mom haircut.” Typically, it’s a no-fuss, ultra-short style that’s been labeled as distinctly uncool for ages. However, the narrative is shifting, as the article suggests that it’s not just one specific haircut that’s to blame for mothers being seen as unfashionable; it’s the notion that any hairstyle favored by moms becomes uncool by default.
“In fashion, there’s ‘mom jeans,’” writes Sara Thompson. “In beauty, we have our version: ‘mom hair.’ You’ve probably seen it in suburban shopping centers—the longer-in-back, slightly-shorter-in-front bob that should appear chic but instead reads as frumpy.”
It appears that motherhood has, in some way, tarnished the bob hairstyle. But it doesn’t stop there; it seems we’ve also managed to ruin all variations of bobs and shorter cuts. “Even urban moms aren’t spared,” Thompson notes, using “urban” to suggest a sense of style. “Sure, some may add trendy blunt bangs or layers, but the end result still lacks charm.”
So, let’s sum this up: if a mom chooses any bob variation, it’s deemed frumpy. Anything shorter than a bob has long been the punchline of mom jokes. And if you add trendy bangs or layers, you’re still perceived as a style disaster.
Is it possible that moms have single-handedly ruined hair? The idea that motherhood makes things uncool is not new. When mothers began wearing higher-waisted jeans to conceal postpartum bodies, those became dubbed “mom jeans.” The same fate befell minivans and yoga pants. A similar trend seems to apply to any hairstyle that deviates from the lengthy, flowing locks associated with glamor.
Thompson acknowledges that many moms cut their hair shorter to “hold onto a piece of their identity” or due to postpartum hair changes. However, stylist Mark Anderson advises against going for a shorter cut, warning that “it’s not just your hair that’s evolving; your body is, too.” He adds, “When you chop your hair, you’re more exposed. Long hair can act as a distraction.”
So there you have it. Instead of embracing a practical, shorter style that makes you feel confident, you might be better off keeping your hair long to hide your “disgusting” mom body. Or, if you must go for the notorious “mom bob,” ensure you cut the bangs a bit too short for that youthful, reckless touch—like you just had a run-in with your child’s safety scissors.
I personally find it frustrating that “mom” is consistently associated with unflattering, dull, and unfashionable traits. A bob is a timeless hairstyle, yet if a lot of moms opt for it, suddenly it’s a fashion faux pas?
The truth is that if many women choose the same haircut, it’s likely because it works for them or simply makes them feel good. Perhaps they just like it and have other priorities beyond worrying about the opinions on their haircuts. Anything that becomes popular among moms seems to earn the label of “uncool.” But if that’s the case, maybe the real issue lies with society’s inability to recognize mothers as stylish, sexy, and vibrant individuals. Even if we were to grow our “mom hair” to the floor, it wouldn’t resolve the underlying problem.
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In summary, the perception that mothers ruin hairstyles simply by embracing them is outdated. Moms can be stylish and confident, regardless of their hair length. The real challenge lies in changing societal views about motherhood and fashion.