Parenting
Let’s Stop Criticizing Parents for Every Choice They Make by Clara Adams for Home Insemination Kit
Updated: June 27, 2023
Originally Published: June 27, 2023
In today’s world, we often see an overwhelming amount of judgment thrown at parents regarding their choices—whether they are parenting well or not. As we navigate parks, zoos, and even social media, we encounter whispers, sideways glances, and unkind snickers directed at those who are simply trying to do their best.
It seems everyone has a perfect parenting handbook these days, and it leaves me thinking, “Wow, I wish I could be as flawless as you all seem to be.” From swearing in front of kids to deciding whether to breastfeed, enroll in pre-K, or choose organic foods, the list of decisions we face is endless. Every day, from the moment we bring our little ones home from the hospital (or even before that), we’re bombarded with choices that will shape their lives. While some decisions carry more weight than others, the relentless scrutiny of our parenting choices can be exhausting.
We all strive to do our best. We know when to let go of the trivial matters and, most importantly, we understand what our children need, regardless of what others might think.
As a mother of a lively 7-year-old and another child on the way, I don’t claim to be a parenting guru. However, I have some insights that might resonate with you. It’s essential to realize that cursing in front of your child or stressing over daily decisions like screen time or snack choices aren’t the things that truly harm our kids.
Instead, it’s the significant aspects of care that truly matter. Are your children warm? Fed? Regularly visiting healthcare professionals? If you’re taking a moment to read this article, I’m sure your answers are “yes.”
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In summary, it’s time we ease up on the judgment and embrace the unique paths each parent takes. After all, we’re all just trying to do our best for our kids.