We’re often seen as “that family.” And while there are many reasons for that label, today, it’s about our journey with food allergies. Our son has faced life-threatening reactions, and I’ve also had my close calls. As a result, I’m the mom who feels a wave of panic with every cough, sneeze, or flushed face. I understand the eye-rolls that come with signs labeling spaces as peanut-free or dairy-free; I know it can feel inconvenient. But I assure you, my reality is far more complex than just avoiding a few treats. Here are eight heartfelt requests from a mom navigating this challenging world:
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A Bit of Patience, Please.
I kindly ask that you try to imagine our reality. Picture your child almost losing their life because of a seemingly innocent snack. It’s terrifying, and it’s happened to us more than once. -
Curious About Labels? Just Ask Me!
I don’t expect you to contact food companies like I do, as labeling can often be misleading. If you have questions, I’m more than happy to share what I know, even though I’m constantly learning myself. -
EpiPens Are Not a Safety Net.
It’s essential to understand that an EpiPen isn’t a cure-all. While commercials may suggest otherwise, there’s a process following the injection, and it doesn’t guarantee safety. Please take these allergies seriously. -
Swift Action is Crucial.
Reactions can return even after administering epinephrine, and trust me, the second wave of panic is no less frightening. If a reaction occurs, please act quickly. -
Contamination is Everywhere.
Peanuts and other allergens can lurk in unexpected places, from soil to crayons. While your child might smell lovely, a simple high-five could pose a risk to my son. It’s not personal; it’s a matter of safety. -
Understanding EpiPens Matters.
I don’t expect everyone to know how to use an EpiPen, but I hope you understand its significance in our lives. It can be daunting, and we always carry two for safety. This process is scary for my son, who is just nine, and it deeply affects him. -
Please Don’t Take it Personally.
When my child declines your allergy-friendly cupcakes, it’s not a rejection of your kindness. He’s been taught to only eat food from home to minimize risks. I truly appreciate your thoughtfulness, even if he can’t partake. -
Please Do Your Best with Allergen Requests.
It’s vital to consider how you’d feel if your child faced these challenges. None of us want to be the parent whose child misses out on treats or activities. My son has often been on the outside looking in, so I hope school can be a safe haven where he feels included.
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In summary, as a food allergy mom, I hope for understanding, patience, and cooperation from other parents. Together, we can create a safer and more inclusive environment for all children, especially those with allergies.