In a heartfelt Facebook post, news anchor Lily Matthews encourages women to stop criticizing their bodies. How often have you looked back at an old photo and thought, “Wow, I looked amazing”? Yet, how many times did you initially see that picture and feel anything but good about yourself? It’s common to focus on perceived flaws, like feeling too heavy, tired, or simply not good enough.
Lily Matthews, a prominent newscaster from WXYZ in Michigan, shares her own struggles with body image. When she stumbled upon an old image of herself, her first reaction was filled with self-doubt. “I remember thinking, ‘Yikes! Look at those stretch marks and thighs!’ Fast forward a couple of years, and I realize how harsh I was on myself. Why do so many of us feel this way?” she questions.
There’s a popular saying that resonates here: “I wish I was as fat as the first time I thought I was fat.” It captures the irony of how we often fail to appreciate our bodies in the moment. Now in her 40s and heavier than before, Lily reflects on past photos and wishes she had loved herself back then. “I’m sure that in another 20 years, I’ll look back at who I am now and see a vibrant, happy woman. So, why can’t I see that now?”
Recently, Lily shared a powerful essay titled “Embrace Your Swimsuit!” that discusses body acceptance and joy. “After posting it, a friend approached me, thanking me for the message. She revealed her struggle with negative body image, often turning down invites to the pool. This year, she vowed to embrace fun instead!” Lily recalls. It’s a stark reminder that we often don’t see ourselves the way our friends do.
At work, Lily frequently hears colleagues lamenting their bodies. “Every day, I hear talented, beautiful women criticize their thighs, hair, and wrinkles. Why do we do this?” she wonders.
Determined to change this narrative, she plans to monitor her inner dialogue and the words she vocalize. “I want my son to grow up in an environment where people are valued for their hearts and minds, not their appearance,” she emphasizes.
To quote a yoga teacher she once had, “It doesn’t matter how it looks, what matters is how it feels.” So let’s all strive to feel good in our own skin and not shy away from wearing that swimsuit!
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In summary, Lily Matthews’ message is clear: it’s time to stop the body bashing and start embracing ourselves. We owe it to ourselves and to those around us to cultivate a positive self-image.