Parenting
As I navigate the journey of motherhood, I’ve come to realize just how quickly the different stages can shift. Despite the chaos of a messy morning that left me feeling like the worst mom ever, I find myself feeling proud of the parent I’m evolving into.
I’ve learned to accept myself more fully. I’ve let go of the need to care about others’ judgments regarding my parenting choices. When I make mistakes, rather than berating myself, I’m starting to understand the importance of letting go, learning from the experience, and moving forward.
I’m open with my kids about my emotions. They see me cry and get frustrated, and I’ve realized hiding those feelings doesn’t protect them. It’s a mistake to pretend to be unshakeable; I’m a human being who has her limits. Keeping three little ones happy is no small feat, and sometimes, I simply want the chance to finish a chapter in my book without interruptions.
I’ve become better at asking for what I need. Whether it’s my friends, family, or even my children, I know that seeking help doesn’t signify weakness. I want my kids to grow up understanding the value of asking for assistance and the importance of supporting one another. They’ve witnessed me reaching out, and I plan to continue modeling this behavior.
I’ve also adopted a more relaxed attitude toward life. The house doesn’t always need to be spotless, it’s okay to be a bit late, and forgetting things happens to the best of us. Life is unpredictable, and I’m learning to embrace that.
Saying “no” has become easier for me. If something feels overwhelming, I simply decline. If I’m too exhausted or just don’t feel like doing something, I’ve learned it’s okay to put myself first.
I’ve grown stronger through my parenting journey. Each day brings new lessons, and even when I make mistakes that feel monumental, I realize they rarely are. My kids are okay. I’m okay.
Prioritizing my own needs is something I’ve started to embrace more. In the past, I struggled with this concept, often thinking that mothers who took time for themselves were lacking in commitment. I now understand that self-care is essential—there’s nothing weak about wanting a little time for myself, perhaps with a margarita in hand.
I’ve evolved in ways that go beyond just perfecting crafts or dinner recipes. I’m more at ease in my role as a mom, recognizing what works for me and what doesn’t. I’ve learned that self-criticism is unproductive, while moving forward is empowering. And sometimes, it’s completely liberating to just say “forget it.”
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In summary, motherhood is a constant learning experience, filled with ups and downs. I am proud of the mother I am becoming, embracing my emotions, asking for help, and prioritizing my well-being while supporting my kids in becoming strong individuals.