Parenting can be a tough gig, and we all know that every child is unique with their own set of strengths and challenges. I get that we’re supposed to offer empathy when we see a mom whose little one is having a meltdown in the cereal aisle or when a kid bumps into us with their shopping cart. We’ve all had our share of parenting missteps, and sure, many have forgiven mine as well. But let’s be real: there are some seriously inconsiderate parents out there.
Whether at school functions, sports events, or simply in your neighborhood, some parents exhibit behaviors that make it hard to stay silent. Their antics can overshadow the event or disrupt the experience for the kids involved. Here’s a rundown of six parenting behaviors that can earn you the “not-so-great” title.
1. Blocking Views with Your Massive Tablet
You know who you are: the parent who decides to film their child’s performance at a recital using a giant tablet. It’s always in the middle of the row, and as the lights dim, out comes the iPad, held high like it’s a trophy. Instead of watching your child, everyone else ends up watching through your screen. If this is you, please reconsider your filming strategy.
2. Confusing Drop-Off Procedures in May
By this time of year, you should have the school drop-off routine down pat. Seriously, how hard can it be to remember where to go? We all had our newbie moments at the start of the school year, but if you’re still causing chaos in May, it’s time to get it together. Trust me, everyone in line thinks you’re the one being inconsiderate as you cut in front of others.
3. Letting Your Kid Roam Free for Hours
I love the idea of a community that looks out for one another, but I shouldn’t have to be your kid’s lunch provider every day. It’s great when kids come over to play, but if your little one is spending hours at my house, it’d be nice if you could reciprocate once in a while. You’re not just absent-mindedly feeding my kids; you’re also earning a few eye-rolls from me.
4. One-Upmanship During Worrying Moments
If I’m sharing my concerns about my child’s struggles, now is not the time to boast about your child’s excellence in math or sports. It’s particularly frustrating when I’m feeling vulnerable and you respond with how your child never gets into trouble. Let’s keep the focus on support and not turn it into a competition.
5. Coaches Screaming at Kids
Coach Thompson, let’s have a chat. You’re coaching 9-year-olds, not the pros. These kids are not aiming for the World Series; they just want to have fun. Yelling at them doesn’t inspire hard work; it just makes you look like a jerk. Remember, they’re watching your behavior—and it’s shaping their experience.
6. Leaving Recitals Early
This one is a true pet peeve. When a kid puts in months of hard work for a performance, the least you can do is stay until the end. Walking out midway through disrupts everyone, and it shows a lack of respect for all the kids who have put in the effort. If your child has finished, kindly wait and support the others.
Of course, I could go on, but I’ll stop here. After all, I’m not trying to be a jerk. For more insights and engaging discussions, check out our other blog posts, like this one on home insemination kits. You can also visit Make a Mom for expert advice on fertility topics, or learn more about the process of in vitro fertilisation at Wikipedia.
Summary:
Parenting can be challenging, and some behaviors can be bothersome to others in the community. From obstructive filming to leaving events early, it’s important to be considerate of fellow parents and children. Let’s aim for a supportive environment for everyone involved.