In my home, a daily act of intimacy is quite common. Before you jump to conclusions, let me clarify the most crucial point in bold: MY HUSBAND NEVER EXPECTS THIS. If he ever approached me with any assumptions, he knows I’d set him straight in no uncertain terms.
These frequent moments of pleasure are entirely my choice. It’s not about fulfilling a so-called “wifely duty” or repaying him for being the main provider; that kind of thinking is outdated. I’m not trying to manipulate him into giving me something in return; he doesn’t leave cash behind as a tip!
The truth is, I genuinely enjoy making him happy, and an intimate act is a wonderful way to achieve that. I give my husband pleasure because it brings him joy, and I adore him deeply. It really is that simple.
If you’ve ever engaged in similar acts with a long-term partner, you likely know it doesn’t take long. Unless you’re not quite in the groove, which can be easily fixed with a few tips. If I can spare just five minutes to give my partner something he cherishes, why wouldn’t I?
This idea isn’t limited to physical acts; it can mean many things. If your partner’s love language is food, maybe whip up their favorite sandwich. Leave an umbrella by the door on a rainy day or surprise them with a cozy cup of coffee. Small acts of kindness can make a significant impact on your loved one’s day. For me, however, it happens to involve intimacy.
This simple gesture creates a ripple effect. You might be surprised at how much easier life is with a partner who feels appreciated. Happy partners nurture a joyful family environment, benefiting everyone in the household. Interestingly, studies have even suggested that regular ejaculation can reduce the risk of prostate cancer, which adds another layer of health benefits to the mix—similar to how I ensure he takes his vitamins!
Now, if you’re sitting there thinking you could never do something like this regularly, let me assure you: it’s entirely voluntary. There are days when I might not feel up to it—whether I’m under the weather, feeling grumpy, or simply not in the mood.
So when I do choose to engage in this act, it’s a selfless gift motivated by love, not obligation. It can be empowering too; in a world that sometimes makes me doubt my worth as a partner or parent, I feel validated in my choices.
Especially during those exhausting days when I’m touched-out, this act can serve as a quick fix for both of us. You know those nights when all you want is to sleep but your partner seeks intimacy? By ensuring he is satisfied, I can drift off to sleep without distraction. While it’s not a substitute for full intimacy, it can be an excellent alternative.
I understand that not everyone is keen on giving intimate pleasure, and that’s perfectly okay. If it’s not your thing, no pressure. But if you’re open to exploring it, you might just find that the rewards are worth the effort. A surprise cup of coffee might bring a smile for a moment, but a spontaneous act of affection can brighten their whole day.
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Summary
In my relationship, I choose to engage in intimate acts regularly, not out of obligation but because I genuinely enjoy making my partner happy. This simple act fosters a positive atmosphere in our home and has health benefits too. It’s all about voluntary choice and mutual satisfaction.