Parenting is an art, not a science. Even when we share similar philosophies, our approaches differ because we are unique individuals raising our own distinctive children. There’s no single guideline we can all strictly adhere to; the essence of parenting lies in our ability to adapt, improvise, and navigate the delightful chaos that our kids create.
While I recognize that everyone has their own style of parenting, there are specific traits that make me feel a connection with other parents. Here are 26 qualities I admire:
- You embrace humor.
- You find humor in your own kids.
- You laugh at the absurdities of parenting.
- You throw gentle jabs at your kids (when they’re not looking).
- You might roast them a little, but in a playful, understated way.
- You’re not overly concerned about screen time, junk food, or TV binges.
- You maintain a level-headed attitude most of the time.
- You understand that parenting is a roll of the dice.
- You don’t spoil your kids with everything they want, which saves me from feeling like the bad guy.
- You might offer a drink at your child’s birthday party.
- You’re cool with having drinks at playdates.
- You understand the value of a good beverage.
- You recognize that beer gardens can be enjoyable for both parents and kids.
- You’re not afraid to let a curse word slip.
- You believe in vaccinations.
- You share my views about certain political figures (#NeverTrump).
- You’re nonjudgmental.
- You refrain from giving unsolicited parenting advice.
- You know that sometimes, saying “yes” benefits everyone.
- You don’t let your kids watch Caillou—thank goodness!
- You do let them enjoy Star Wars.
- You get why my car is a disaster zone.
- You understand why my house often looks like a tornado hit it.
- Your vehicle is also a bit chaotic.
- Your home reflects the joyful messiness of family life.
- You’re totally okay with the clutter in your car and house.
Of course, not having all of these traits doesn’t mean we won’t get along. But when I see these qualities in fellow parents, it definitely makes me feel more at ease.
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In summary, while parenting styles may differ, shared qualities can foster connections among parents. Humor, understanding, and a bit of chaos can create a supportive community for everyone involved.