Dear Friends and Colleagues,
As a community, we are facing a significant challenge. We can debate the reasons—whether they stem from reality or perception, media portrayals, or societal expectations—but the stark reality is that many families with special needs children hesitate to reach out for our help. They fear we might cause them harm, pass judgment, or take their children away. This situation is both heartbreaking and unacceptable.
It pains me to admit that I share some of those fears. Although I hold a prominent position in the police department and am responsible for training our officers, I, too, feel apprehension. As a father, I worry about the power we wield and how it can impact lives. This power can be intimidating for both our families and us.
We are united in our mission. I would stand by your side in any situation. Today, I implore you to listen. When families call 911 in times of crisis, they do so out of sheer desperation and bravery, fully aware of their fears about us. Resist the urge to judge or distance yourself. I am a devoted father, and my wife is an amazing mother. Despite our strong support system, there have been moments—four times, in fact—when I lost sight of my son. If you were to evaluate my parenting based on those incidents, you might question my capability.
Families like mine are on high alert constantly. For over a decade, I haven’t enjoyed a peaceful meal with my wife at a family gathering. We alternate watch over our son, often sleeping in shifts, with one ear attuned to the slightest sound of the latch on our back door. This vigilance isn’t due to concerns about intruders but rather the fear of our son wandering off. We feel the weight of judgment from strangers, and even a quick trip to the grocery store requires meticulous planning. It’s exhausting.
I’m not seeking your pity; this isn’t a tragedy akin to leukemia. It’s a challenge we face daily, and sometimes we need support. Sometimes we need you.
I am one of your staunchest supporters and advocates. I am proud to proclaim that you are, unequivocally, the good guys. However, this reputation can be fragile. A single negative headline can quickly skew public opinion. I urge you to approach our families with curiosity and empathy. Your understanding can make a world of difference.
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In conclusion, our families need your understanding and support in moments of vulnerability. Together, we can create a safer, more compassionate environment for everyone.
Summary
This letter emphasizes the fears families with special needs children face when seeking help from law enforcement. It highlights the importance of empathy and understanding from police officers and encourages open communication and support for these families.