Let’s get real: I’m constantly assessing the behavior of everyone around me. Whether we’re at a gathering or chatting online, I’m observing and forming opinions. Yes, I even size up strangers in line at the grocery store or while driving. It’s just part of my nature.
Now, some might label me as overly judgmental, but that’s far from the truth. My judgments aren’t about critiquing how people live their lives; instead, I find myself scrutinizing those who make our world a harsher place with their unfair criticisms of others. If you’re a parent fumbling through a tough day, a couple seeking love and acceptance, or someone voicing their political beliefs, I’ll stand up against anyone who harshly judges you.
In our internet-driven society, we’ve lost the art of face-to-face conversations. Now, people can hide behind their screens, unleashing their criticisms without considering the human being on the receiving end. The instant feedback of a tweet or comment has turned some into digital vigilantes, ready to pounce before hearing the whole story. It’s disheartening to watch someone face public ridicule for a mistake that could happen to any of us.
Take, for instance, the parent who faced backlash after a tragic incident at the zoo; the online community was quick to pounce, condemning her for a horrific day that no parent should ever have to endure. Similarly, the parents who lost their child to an alligator while on vacation faced a torrent of harsh judgment, as if their grief made them deserving of scorn.
When did it become acceptable to react cruelly to someone else’s pain? That’s where my judgment comes into play. I feel deep empathy for those parents, just as I often worry about making my own parenting mistakes that could go viral. Every time I back out of a parking spot, I dread the thought of accidentally missing a child. Life is fraught with challenges, but no one should take out their frustrations on others.
So, yes, I do judge people based on how they treat others. I believe that character shows through kindness, humility, and grace, especially in trying times. We all have our bad days, but if your default mode is to unleash negativity on people you don’t know, you bet I’m judging you. And in my court, there’s no jury to defend you.
Parenting is tough, and life can be just as challenging. Yet, personal struggles don’t justify being unkind or judgmental, especially online. Instead of being a Judgy McJudgerson, let’s practice empathy and think twice before we hit send. Consider stepping away from your screen and having real-life conversations. Save your judgments for the orange Oompa Loompa running for president and give well-meaning parents a break.
Remember the saying, “Judge not, lest ye be judged?” Perhaps it should really be “Just be kind and avoid being a jerk.” The world could certainly use more kindness.
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In summary, let’s strive for a kinder approach to one another. We are all navigating our own challenges, and a little compassion goes a long way.