As I approached my thirtieth birthday, I experienced a moment of panic—after all, 30 feels like a significant milestone after spending a decade in my 20s. Those years were filled with upheaval and transformation, including leaving home, marrying, and starting a family. It’s easy to believe that the best days are behind you when facing the big 3-0. However, I quickly discovered that this couldn’t be farther from the truth. My 30s have been nothing short of fantastic, marked by self-discovery and acceptance. Here are ten revelations that illustrate why I am loving this decade of my life.
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I Embrace My Body
I may not always adore every aspect of my body, but I’ve grown to appreciate it most of the time. A blemish doesn’t throw me into a frenzy, and I’m less bothered by a bad hair day or a little extra weight. Instead, I focus on being healthy without obsessing over every detail. I take pride in what my body has accomplished and give it the grace it deserves. -
I Don’t Tolerate Nonsense
If my dentist appointment is scheduled for 1 p.m. and I’m still waiting at 1:45, I’m ready to find a new dentist. My time is precious, and if it’s not valued, I’ll take my business elsewhere. Whether it’s a restaurant or a service, I’m done waiting around for poor treatment. -
Friendship Quality Over Quantity
As I’ve moved beyond high school and college, I’ve learned that true friendships are about depth rather than the number of connections. Now, I find myself nurturing fewer, but more meaningful relationships, making plans to connect and cherishing those who genuinely care about me. -
I Indulge Without Guilt
In my 20s, I used to stress over calories and whether I should indulge in a dessert. Now, I live by the “everything in moderation” philosophy. If I want to whip up a chocolate cake and enjoy it for dinner, I do so without a second thought. Life is too short to worry excessively about what I eat. -
Self-Care is a Priority
Gone are the days of late-night partying before work. I’ve learned to listen to my body and prioritize rest. Whether it’s a good night’s sleep or a workout session, I know what I need to feel my best and I make it happen. -
I Appreciate Myself
While I still have my insecurities, I generally like who I am. I recognize my strengths, my sense of humor, and the value I bring to the table. I’m confident in my worth, and if someone doesn’t see it, that’s their loss. -
My Dreams Are Expanding
In my 20s, I was often lost in questions about my identity and purpose. Now, I’ve moved past that uncertainty and am focused on what I genuinely want to achieve. There’s a sense of freedom in dreaming big and pursuing those aspirations. -
My Beliefs Are Solidified
I’ve taken the time to define my values, from my spiritual beliefs to my views on social issues and parenting. I feel grounded in what I stand for and, while I remain open to new ideas, I’m confident in my principles. -
I Accept My Imperfections
I know I’m not the best housekeeper, and I have my temperamental moments. I’m committed to self-improvement, but I’ve also come to terms with certain flaws that are simply part of who I am. Stressing over them is no longer worth my energy. -
I’m Hopeful for the Future
After the soul-searching of my 20s, I feel optimistic about what lies ahead. I believe I can be a good parent, partner, and contribute positively to the world. The future feels bright and full of potential.
My 30s are shaping up to be an extraordinary decade, and I’ve heard from those ahead of me that it only gets better. While some may dread aging, I’m excited about the experiences, wisdom, and self-assurance that are yet to come. Bring it on, life!
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Summary
In my 30s, I’ve discovered the importance of self-acceptance, meaningful relationships, and dreaming big. I’ve learned to enjoy life without guilt, prioritize self-care, and embrace my flaws while remaining optimistic about the future.