Dear Jake,
As the summer days dwindle, I find myself reflecting on how quickly time has flown by. I remember eagerly counting down to the start of school, wishing for our daily routine to resume. As a working mom, I often felt guilty about missing those sun-soaked afternoons with you at the park. I thought that if you were in school like everyone else, I was doing right by you. But sometimes, I worry that I hurried through your childhood, and now, I long to press pause on these fleeting moments.
I can still picture the tears I shed on your first day of kindergarten as I watched you step onto that yellow bus, ready to explore a world beyond our neighborhood. Your first soccer game was a bittersweet experience, a reminder that you were growing up. To this day, I can’t help but get emotional during the national anthem at your games.
Time is slipping away, and I see the finish line approaching. There are only a couple more first-day-of-school photos to take, and soon you’ll have your driver’s license in hand. Your high school sports seasons are dwindling, too.
You may not realize it, but social media is filled with heartfelt letters from parents to their soon-to-be high school graduates. Each one brings a tear to my eye as I think about all the milestones we’ll soon face. I’m not great with goodbyes, and I know your senior year will bring plenty of tears. But we’re not there yet—we still have your junior year ahead of us. This is our last chance to savor these moments before life speeds up.
As you prepare for this pivotal year, I have some thoughts to share:
- This Year Matters. Your junior year is crucial. By the time senior year rolls around, it will be too late to make significant changes. Focus on your grades, your sports, and your SAT preparation. Dedicate yourself fully on the lacrosse and soccer fields, in the classroom, and with your test prep. There are no do-overs; it’s time to give it your all.
- Be a Role Model. You’re now an upperclassman, and younger kids look up to you. Your actions set the tone for your peers and those little cousins of yours. You have a natural ability to lead, so embrace it. Be kind, honest, and humble. Show them what it means to be a true hero.
- Prioritize Family. We might seem annoying at times, but remember that we love you deeply. Keep the lines of communication open with Dad and me—we have wisdom to share. Don’t forget to reach out to your grandparents; they cherish those moments. And always be kind to your sister; your bond will last a lifetime.
- Think Before You Act. You feel invincible, but remember that one poor decision can have lasting consequences. Avoid drinking and driving, and don’t ride with anyone who has been drinking. Make wise choices, and never hesitate to call me for a ride. And if you choose to become sexually active, ensure you’re safe—birth control is your responsibility too.
- Explore Career Options. While it may seem early, think about your future job. You’ll spend a significant part of your life working, so consider what you love. Do you envision yourself in a corporate office, coaching a team, or working outdoors? Nurture your passions and find a way to turn them into a fulfilling career.
- Enjoy the Journey. Your junior year should be a blend of hard work and fun. Attend football games, hang out with friends, and indulge in pizza nights. The real world will be here before you know it.
As you transition into your junior year, know that I hope I’ve provided you with a solid foundation for your future. Your childhood is behind you; you’re standing on the brink of adulthood. My dear Jake, you’re almost a man.
With all my love,
Mom