As I spent my morning organizing lunch boxes, signing forms, and hunting down toddler shoes that actually fit, I realized one thing: It’s officially “Back to (Pre)School Season.” With all this preparation, I felt a rush of anxiety about the obligations headed my way. Room Mom duties, holiday party preparations, teacher breakfasts, and class donations are looming, and honestly, I’m not ready for it.
If last year taught me anything, it’s that I’m not exactly the best at gifting preschool teachers (who knew Valentine’s Day required presents?). But then, I had a moment of clarity fueled by caffeine. This year, I’m taking a firm stand. I won’t let preschool activities become just another item on my never-ending to-do list. While I cherish seeing my little one grow and learn, I refuse to put unnecessary pressure on either of us because, let’s face it, it’s just preschool! So, here’s what I’m saying “no” to this year:
1. Back-to-School Teacher Gifts
Last year was a learning experience, and while I’m all in for gifting teachers, administrators, and aides on holidays (big or small), I just can’t handle the “Welcome Back” gift. We haven’t even started yet! I’ll commit to bringing in a gift card when my child starts potty training and will try to remember birthdays, but a back-to-school gift is not happening. I’d rather leave that creativity to the other moms who can come up with the perfect token of appreciation for the teachers they hope will survive the year with their kids.
2. Saving Every Piece of Artwork
Ah, the endless stream of art! My little artist loves creating, and we all celebrate his masterpieces. But what happens next? Do I keep it all? I lack the storage for that. This year, after we admire the creations, I’ll discreetly toss some of the less impressive stuff. Of course, I’ll keep the special pieces (hello, cotton ball sheep!), but those crayon scribbles? Not making the cut this time.
3. Elaborate Lunches
I once witnessed another mom unpacking her toddler’s lunch and was utterly amazed. Her bento box filled with a sushi-style turkey sandwich put my simple attempts to shame. Last year, I let that pressure get to me, spending way too much time crafting complex lunches that went mostly untouched. This year, I’m sticking with the classic trio of Goldfish, mini muffins, and raisins—it’s simple, and I’m calling it a win.
4. Saturday Carnival Day
Dear School, I appreciate all you do, but let’s be real—organizing a family day at school on a Saturday is a tall order. Honestly, I can think of a million other ways to spend a Saturday than chasing my child around a parking lot filled with games that require skills he hasn’t quite mastered yet. If we promise to enjoy fall at home with a hay bale and a pumpkin from the store, can we skip this one?
5. Themed Days of Any Kind
If it involves finding a special outfit, packing a themed snack, or doing any kind of homework, count us out. He’s only 2; he’s just here for the playground, not “celebrate our home state week.”
6. Parent Email Chains
While I do want to stay informed about school happenings, I’m not interested in buying Tupperware, candles, or leggings just because our children share a class. I already have friends bugging me on Facebook for that stuff, so I’m going to delete those mass emails without a second thought.
Cheers to the new school year! I look forward to seeing you all—just not at Carnival Day, holiday preparations, or any of those other events.
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