You’ve packed their bags, driven them to campus, and now your college kid is set to embark on what could be the most exciting four years of their life. As they navigate through classes and social events, these formative years from 18 to 23 are filled with opportunities for growth and adventure. Between the late-night study sessions, football games, and social gatherings, here are some essential experiences I hope my college kid will embrace along the way—some thrilling, others perhaps a bit painful, but all pivotal moments in their journey.
- Embark on an unforgettable road trip. The kind where meals are gas station snacks and sleep is just a suggestion.
- Take a class with a professor you completely disagree with. Sit front and center, engage thoughtfully, and practice the art of respectful discourse.
- Stand up for someone’s right to free speech, even if you find it objectionable. Whether it’s a club with opposing views or a controversial topic, learn to defend the principle of free expression.
- Participate in intramural sports. Join as many teams as possible; this is your last chance for midnight softball games!
- Enjoy free foreign films and live performances. Take advantage of the cultural offerings on campus, from theater to concerts—trust me, you won’t regret it.
- Attend lectures featuring renowned speakers. Nothing compares to the insights gained from in-person discussions with thought leaders.
- Survive a semester on Ramen and pizza. You might even throw in some fries; after all, those late-night games burn a lot of calories.
- Experience heartbreak. A difficult breakup can offer valuable life lessons and foster personal growth.
- Encourage a friend to stick with college. Support that peer who’s considering quitting—be their ally and motivator.
- Invite a classmate to spend the holidays with your family. If someone can’t make it home, extend an invitation and make their holiday special.
- Master a show-stopping meal. Acquire the skills to cook a delicious dish that will impress dates—think roast chicken served on real plates, not plastic.
- Get your car towed a few times. It’s a wake-up call that even the most special of snowflakes aren’t above the rules.
- Party responsibly but have fun. Enjoy a few memorable nights out, but remember the importance of moderation.
- Engage in student government and advocate for causes you care about. Your voice matters in how student fees are allocated.
- Work in a campus office with Ph.D. holders. Their diverse perspectives will sharpen your critical thinking skills.
- Change your major several times. It’s perfectly okay to explore until you find the right path for you.
- Start a small business with friends. Whether it’s moving furniture or offering rides, earn some cash while having a blast.
- Skip a class. Experience the regret of missing a quiz and learn the importance of attending lectures.
- Misplace an expensive textbook. This will teach you the value of being organized and taking care of your belongings.
- Discover where all the free food is. There’s a treasure trove of snacks, especially during the first weeks of the semester and finals.
- Have such a good time that you wish it would never end. Embrace the fun, because adulting gets real fast.
- Be ready to graduate and face the world. While it’s important to enjoy college, prepare to step into the next chapter of your life with confidence.
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In summary, encourage your college kid to explore diverse experiences that shape their character and prepare them for the world beyond campus. After all, these years are not just about academics—they’re about becoming a well-rounded individual ready for life’s challenges.