Published: Oct. 26, 2016
According to Sexual Health Matters, hypersexuality affects an estimated 25 to 80% of individuals with bipolar disorder during manic episodes. This is a significant figure, especially considering that there are roughly 5.7 million adults in the U.S. living with bipolar disorder, representing about 2.6% of the adult population. Given these numbers, it’s likely that millions of people grapple with this symptom, which can be incredibly damaging. Unfortunately, many individuals may not even be aware of its existence or that it has a name.
Despite the well-documented symptoms of bipolar disorder, hypersexuality often remains an under-discussed topic. Why is this? With the release of Jenna Lee’s book Racing Thoughts: A Journey Through Mania, conversations about bipolar mania and hypersexuality are starting to gain traction. In her book, she notes, “Living with bipolar disorder often feels like an unquenchable thirst. The highs of mania never seem to be enough. Just like an addict chasing their next fix, individuals with bipolar disorder may find themselves drawn to risky behaviors as a way to amplify their highs.”
Robert James, the founding director of the Sexual Recovery Institute in Los Angeles, defines hypersexuality as an unhealthy fixation on sexual fantasies, which often leads to compulsive sexual behaviors. This can include a range of activities, such as excessive use of pornography, frequent casual sexual encounters, or intense romantic pursuits over an extended period.
From my own experience, hypersexuality feels like an overpowering urge that can consume my thoughts. During these episodes, I experience an exhilarating rush similar to the excitement of new love. This high boosts my confidence tremendously, yet the cravings for sexual experiences are insatiable. It’s as if my body is on autopilot, pushing me toward actions I might later regret if I don’t exert conscious control.
As a contributor to bpHope Magazine, I encourage you to explore their website for more insights into this subject. They provide excellent resources on recognizing symptoms and share expert advice from leading professionals in bipolar disorder. Despite being happily married to a wonderful partner, this symptom has led to serious challenges in my relationship. Last year, I went through a particularly difficult manic phase that lasted several months.
During that time, my actions spiraled out of control, and no experience felt fulfilling enough. The mania consumed my thoughts, and I found it nearly impossible to resist the overpowering urges. Once the episode passed, I was left reflecting on my behavior and how it had been driven by my condition. Thankfully, I’ve since taken steps to educate myself and my partner about hypersexuality, and we’ve worked together to create a strategic plan for managing triggers.
While I still feel remorse for my past actions, I no longer carry shame. Instead, I view my experiences as learning opportunities. Knowledge is empowering, and I strive to regain control over my life every day. If you or someone you know is facing hypersexuality or other manic symptoms, please reach out to a healthcare professional for support.
For more information on this topic, consider checking out this resource or this expert site. Additionally, UCSF’s fertility page offers valuable information regarding pregnancy and home insemination.
Summary
Hypersexuality is a significant yet often overlooked symptom of bipolar disorder, affecting a large percentage of individuals during manic episodes. This overwhelming urge can lead to risky behaviors and emotional turmoil. Education and awareness are crucial for managing this symptom effectively.