Religion has always been a significant part of my life. I was raised in a Christian household, surrounded by the teachings of various faiths. While I respect the values they offer, I don’t adhere to any single doctrine and have distanced myself from the structure of organized religion.
When my partner and I found out we were expecting our child in 2012, we faced some challenging decisions regarding how to approach spirituality in our family. One of the first questions we encountered was whether we would have our baby baptized.
Taking a moment to gather my thoughts, I replied, “Actually, we won’t be baptizing our child. We aren’t opposed to raising them with religious beliefs, but we want to give our little one the freedom to explore and make their own choices about spirituality.”
This answer didn’t go over well. Instead of understanding, I was met with an uncomfortable silence, followed by a concerned relative insisting that not baptizing our child could lead to dire consequences.
I chose to remain calm and decided to revisit the topic later. Over the next several months, we found ourselves discussing this issue repeatedly. Fortunately, as time passed, the concern diminished. My daughter, now three years old, is a kind, thoughtful, and empathetic individual who embodies the values we hoped to instill without the influence of organized religion.
Interestingly, a 2015 study published in Current Biology found that children raised without religious frameworks often demonstrate greater generosity compared to their peers in religious households. In an experiment known as the “dictator game,” non-religious children exhibited more willingness to share stickers with others, highlighting their inherent kindness.
My daughter displays these traits daily. She is polite, caring, and quick to offer help to those around her. Whether it’s sharing her toys on the playground or comforting someone in distress, she understands the importance of kindness and compassion without needing a religious text to guide her actions.
While many find moral grounding through religion, it is clear that empathy, understanding, and generosity can flourish independently of it. After all, it is people who cultivate goodness in one another, not merely adherence to beliefs.
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In summary, raising a child outside of traditional religious structures does not equate to a lack of morality or compassion. With the right guidance and values instilled, children can grow up to be incredibly kind-hearted individuals.