Lessons from My Mother: A Journey of Resilience

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Throughout my life, I’ve witnessed the incredible strength of women who rise above the challenges of sexism and societal barriers. My mother, who divorced my father when I was just a child, worked relentlessly to provide for our family. She spent twenty years as a secretary at a local university, enduring great hardships to ensure we had food on the table and a roof over our heads.

I saw her passed over for promotions, taking on multiple jobs just to make ends meet. I remember the struggle she faced in finding reliable childcare, often leaving me to navigate life as a latchkey kid. Her sacrifices included giving up her personal life, sleep, and sometimes even meals, all to give me a better future than she had.

My mother taught me a powerful lesson: no matter what life throws at you—whether it’s obstacles that can injure you, or challenges that simply knock you off balance—it’s essential to face them with all your strength. That is the essence of womanhood.

Last night, I found myself sitting on the couch, reflecting on these lessons and shedding tears of gratitude. My two sons enjoy a life filled with opportunities; they lack for nothing and are surrounded by love. They inquired about my tears, and I explained that tomorrow, I would have the privilege of voting—a right that women have only recently secured. I would be voting for a woman who has dedicated her life to making a difference, just as my mother did for me.

While I may not own a pantsuit, I carry within me the legacy of countless women who fought for the right to vote. They longed to see capable, intelligent women have the same opportunities as men to lead our country. As I prepare to cast my vote, I will silently thank those trailblazers for paving the way to this moment in history.

I feel an immense sense of gratitude and privilege as I share these thoughts. Standing alongside leaders like Hillary fills me with pride, and I recognize how far we’ve come. If you’re interested in exploring more about home insemination, check out this insightful post on intracervical insemination. For those looking for reliable resources, Progyny offers invaluable information on pregnancy and home insemination. And if you’re considering options for your journey, Make a Mom is an authority on the subject.

In summary, the lessons from my mother resonate deeply, reminding us of the strength and determination inherent in women. I am grateful for the rights we have today and the leaders who continue to inspire us.