Many of us are grappling with feelings of loss—loss of words, hope, optimism, and faith. I understand the helplessness, anger, and sadness we’re experiencing right now. It’s overwhelming, and I find myself not just worried for my own future but deeply concerned for my children, especially my kids of color, and for all marginalized communities. My heart aches for my friends in the Muslim community and for every victim of assault who sees a reminder of their trauma in our leadership. It’s utterly mortifying.
It feels premature to seek out the silver lining in this situation. Shouldn’t we take time to mourn? Grief can be a long process, and many of us might struggle to navigate it fully in the coming years, but we must strive to move forward nonetheless. While we might find ourselves entrenched in anger or denial, we need to push through. Our country is at a pivotal moment, and we have urgent work ahead.
Sure, it would be tempting to hide away under the covers, disconnect from social media, and retreat from the negativity that surrounds us. A four-year nap sounds appealing, but we can’t afford that. We must awaken to the reality that we need to rise above the hatred. We need to unite as mothers, professionals, advocates, and educators, and push ahead.
This presidency brings trauma, particularly to marginalized communities. We must stand in solidarity with our Muslim American neighbors and continue to support movements like “Black Lives Matter” and “Our bodies, our choice.” If we can, let’s contribute to these causes and support one another—listening, protecting, and fostering a sense of community. We must set an example of progressive values for our children.
I know this sounds idealistic. It’s easier said than done, and I wish I could magically create a shared understanding among us. Unfortunately, I’m not a magician; I’m just a community advocate. In therapeutic circles, we refer to a technique called “reframing,” which allows us to view challenging situations from a different perspective, aiming for more positive outcomes. It’s challenging and may take practice, but it’s achievable.
I’ve made the conscious decision to reframe my perspective. I feel compelled to do this, and I challenge you to join me. I refuse to let the negativity around me dictate my actions. My responsibility is to nurture my children and ensure they grow up with hearts that are both compassionate and resilient, capable of facing a harsh world.
Yet, as I reframe, I also recognize the beauty and goodness that exists in the world. We must focus on the strengths around us and support one another. This is a crucial moment for our nation. The question is, where do we go from here? We keep moving forward, spreading love. It doesn’t matter who is in power; I refuse to let that harden me. I will not believe that goodness doesn’t exist. We must navigate this journey together, learning tough lessons while maintaining hope.
I know it seems too soon and the path ahead appears daunting. But together, we can accomplish this.
Summary
In the face of a challenging political climate, we must confront our feelings of loss and sadness while striving to support one another and foster love and unity. Through reframing our perspectives and standing up for marginalized communities, we can create a more hopeful future together.
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