A Note of Gratitude to the Waitress Who Encouraged My Public Nursing Experience

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Dear Waitress at Chili’s,

I wanted to take a moment to express my heartfelt appreciation for your support when I breastfed my baby in public. Your words, “I saw you nursing, and I just want you to know I’m proud of you for being brave,” truly resonated with me.

You might not realize the significance of that day. We drove nearly two hours from our home—40 miles from the nearest grocery store—for our monthly shopping trip, and our little one hadn’t nursed since early that morning. This much-anticipated outing also doubled as a family day for my husband and our three kids. To say I was feeling a bit overwhelmed would be an understatement, especially after encountering some less-than-friendly shoppers.

Yet, there you were, greeting us with a warm smile on that Sunday afternoon. Your service was not only prompt, but it also felt genuine. After we finished our meal, you brought us the check and took a moment to express your appreciation for my choice to breastfeed in public. As you spoke, I couldn’t help but admire your maturity and understanding, which seemed to transcend your young age.

It was a stark contrast to my earlier encounter with an older gentleman who met my smile with a curt “I was here first,” leaving me feeling a bit discouraged. Perhaps he was having a bad day, but it was disheartening nonetheless. I had expected more kindness from those who should know better, while you, a young woman without children, offered me encouragement instead.

Your words lifted my spirits and rekindled my faith in humanity, which had been waning. I realized that kindness and support can come from the most unexpected places—even from someone much younger than myself. So, thank you for your grace and wisdom that day.

To you, the wonderful waitress at Chili’s who thanked me for breastfeeding in public, I am truly grateful!

Warm regards,

Your Fellow Nursing Customer, Bella

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Summary

This heartfelt letter expresses gratitude to a Chili’s waitress who encouraged a mother to breastfeed in public, highlighting her positive impact and the contrast with less supportive encounters. It emphasizes the importance of kindness and support, regardless of age or experience.