In the world of parenting, the choices we make often lead to self-doubt and guilt, particularly when it comes to how we feed our little ones. The debate between breastfeeding and bottle feeding is one that many parents grapple with, and it seems everyone has a strong opinion on the matter. While breastfeeding may work wonderfully for some, it’s important to remember that not every mother has the ability or choice to breastfeed.
Take for instance, Emma Baker, an Australian mom and blogger who recently shared a heartfelt selfie on Instagram while bottle feeding her 14-month-old daughter, Mia. In her post, she attempted to shine a light on the guilt that many mothers feel when they don’t breastfeed. “Every day, I feel a pang of guilt for not breastfeeding Mia anymore,” she candidly admitted. “Mum guilt is truly a relentless struggle.”
Emma elaborated on her decision to stop breastfeeding at four months, citing a variety of factors. Her two-year-old son, Leo, required her attention, and Mia faced difficulties with latching, which led to digestive issues. Add to that Emma’s own postpartum anxiety, and it became clear why she made her choice. However, the guilt lingered. “I sometimes think I didn’t try hard enough; even though I know that’s not true, I can’t shake the feeling.”
But then Emma shared an important message for all moms battling similar feelings: “The truth is, FED is best. Mia has always been happier and more satisfied on the bottle.” She emphasized that what matters most is ensuring our babies are safe, nourished, and content, regardless of how they are fed.
In her conversation with The Huffington Post, Emma expressed her desire for a more supportive community among parents, where all feeding choices are respected. “There’s far too much judgment surrounding parenting decisions,” she remarked. “As long as it’s safe for the baby, why should anyone criticize a mother’s choice?”
Emma also offered some valuable advice to combat self-judgment: “Just tell mum guilt to take a hike!”
For more insights on parenting and fertility, check out our other blog posts, like this one on home insemination, which provides helpful information for those considering starting a family. Additionally, sites like Make A Mom offer resources and kits for home insemination. If you’re looking for support in your fertility journey, the March of Dimes is an excellent resource.
In conclusion, it’s essential for mothers to remember that the most important thing is the health and happiness of their children—however they choose to feed them. Let’s foster a supportive environment where all parenting choices are honored.