In a thought-provoking piece on Slate, a man poses the question, “Is PMS real?” and women everywhere collectively roll their eyes. Frank Harper’s article, “Is PMS Real? Or is it just a cultural construct?” dives into the history of PMS (premenstrual syndrome) and suggests that its existence might be more about societal beliefs than biological facts.
Harper argues that the absence of PMS diagnoses in certain cultures indicates that it’s a “social construction” that blames women’s feelings on menstruation, which is often viewed negatively. He references a study where women who believed they were premenstrual reported more symptoms than those who were actually premenstrual but unaware. It’s almost as if they were saying, “I didn’t have time to think of a clever title for this study because I was too busy feeling the effects!”
Interestingly, Harper claims that PMS doesn’t seem to manifest in societies where menstruation is celebrated, such as on Wogeo Island in Papua New Guinea, where the local customs are quite unique. However, I think I’ll stick with my healthcare provider for reliable medical advice rather than take cues from a culture that believes illness stems from sorcery or quirky traditions.
But let’s not get offended just yet! Harper isn’t labeling women as irrational. He suggests that acknowledging PMS as a social construct doesn’t diminish the real symptoms women experience. Instead, he believes that our understanding of PMS stems from outdated notions like “hysteria”—a term once used to describe women’s emotions, stemming from the belief in a “wandering uterus.” Thankfully, those days are behind us; as Harper points out, “hysteria” is rarely diagnosed today, especially not by wise partners.
According to Harper, PMS symptoms are largely influenced by suggestion. Once PMS was officially recognized in 1954 by Dr. Katherina Dalton, the list of symptoms expanded dramatically, including everything from lack of coordination to increased empathy towards nature. “Afflicted” is the term he uses to describe women experiencing these symptoms, and frankly, we’ll just respond with a hearty “go f**k yourself” to that one.
Let’s get real: the Office of Women at the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services states that up to 85% of women experience at least one PMS symptom. If that’s not enough credibility for you, check out the Mayo Clinic, which backs up these claims. And if you’re still skeptical, just ask Harper’s wife, who, when he questioned her PMS, gave him “an icy silence.”
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In summary, the conversation around PMS is often muddied by outdated views and societal perceptions. However, the overwhelming evidence supports the reality of PMS, and women’s experiences should be validated and understood, not dismissed.