By: Emily Carter
Updated: November 30, 2023
Originally Published: November 30, 2023
I got my first tattoo at the age of 18, stepping into a reputable parlor with my best friend. She opted for a charming blue star on her foot, while I chose a 6-inch angel to grace my back. As I walked out, skin pulsating beneath the protective wrap on my new ink, I was filled with excitement and self-assurance. Sure, I briefly worried about my mom’s reaction, but ultimately, I felt sure about my choice to mark my skin with colorful ink. The thought of how I’d explain it to my children or how I’d feel about it in the future didn’t faze me at all.
I’ve heard many people express regret over their tattoos. Some lament the permanent alteration to their skin, while others dislike the design itself more than its permanence. I empathize with them—regret is something I know well. My life has been a series of impulsive choices followed by moments of reflection. Yet, when it comes to my tattoo? I have zero regrets.
In fact, I’m somewhat surprised that I feel this way. I was young and impulsive when I made that decision, and the design is certainly not what I would pick today. Over the past two decades, it has faded significantly, and there’s a rather amusing detail about the angel’s foot that resembles something entirely different. But despite these factors, I don’t feel regret.
Not only do I cherish that first tattoo, but I’ve also added several more in recent years, and I hold no regrets about them either. While I may not love every single design equally, I appreciate the stories and meanings behind each one. “But they’re permanent!” people often exclaim. And yes, that’s true. But perhaps that’s precisely why I adore them. In a world that constantly changes, my tattoos serve as a reminder of what endures. They also help me maintain a sense of humor about life and not take things too seriously. After all, what truly matters is the essence within, not the exterior.
Concerns about tattoos affecting job prospects have also come up, but I believe outdated stereotypes are fading. As Millennials step into leadership roles, workplaces are becoming more accepting of visible tattoos. A Pew Research poll indicated that 23% of Americans have at least one tattoo, with that number rising to 32% among those aged 30 to 45.
Then there’s the question of what my tattoos convey to my children. Am I setting an example that encourages them to get tattoos at a young age? Perhaps, but I see it differently. I want my kids to understand that outward appearances—whether it’s skin color, hair style, or tattoos—don’t define one’s character. My tattoos illustrate that being a devoted parent isn’t about conforming to a certain look, but rather about loving your children in your unique way.
If my children decide to get tattoos someday (when they’re old enough, of course), I won’t discourage them. Instead, I’ll encourage them to consider their choices carefully, to think about the permanence, and to remember that what’s inside matters far more than the surface. I’ll assure them of my unconditional love, regardless of their decisions. And then I’ll ask, “Mind if I join you?”
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In summary, my tattoo journey has been filled with joy and self-acceptance. I embrace my choices and hope to instill the same values in my children, teaching them that true worth lies within.