Just a month ago, I found myself in a whirlwind of baking and cooking when my oven decided it had had enough. With a bowl of chocolate chip cookie dough ready and a frantic look on my face, I could feel the stress building in my temples. Flour dusted my hair, and I had batter splatters all over my favorite shirt and yoga pants while I muttered a few choice words to my stubborn appliance.
The next day, the repair technicians arrived and informed me that the issue lay with the central circuit board, which they could send off for a costly repair since the manufacturer no longer produced the parts. Alternatively, they offered me a rather expensive new oven. “Sure, let’s go with the repair,” I said, knowing full well there wasn’t much choice.
As they removed the circuit board, they casually mentioned that it would take two weeks—and I was without an oven, and to my surprise, a stovetop as well. “You’ve got plenty of great takeout options nearby, right?” one of the guys said with a grin, watching me as I felt the vein in my temple throb more insistently.
With no cooking appliances for two weeks, I decided to check the freezer. Thankfully, I had some emergency corn dogs and dinosaur nuggets frozen, along with microwaveable veggies to get us through. Now, I wish I could tell you a heroic tale of how I fashioned a stovetop out of bamboo and ingenuity, or how I whipped up delightful tea party snacks. But let’s be real: I indulged in takeout and microwaved meals, and you know what? I loved it. Yes, I loved my microwave, and I embraced it fully.
As a parent, I always felt this immense obligation to provide my children with wholesome, home-cooked meals. They’ve been raised on nutritious homemade food and healthy snacks, and I took pride in that. Yet, during these past weeks without a proper kitchen, I realized something I hadn’t noticed before: in my quest to balance work and family life, I had stretched myself too thin and become exhausted.
I remember one night after a long shift at work, a colleague, Sarah, said to me, “You have to let it go. Just let it go.” I nodded, too tired to engage further, but now I understand the wisdom in her words. The breakdown of my oven forced me to step back from the overwhelming demands of meal prep, allowing me to breathe.
Those unexpected free hours were nothing short of liberating. I could spend them productively or simply relax on the couch with a cup of coffee and my favorite show. I could even reach out to friends just to check in. This newfound time lifted a burden, giving me energy and reducing my irritability. It turns out that what I thought was a small task—meal preparation—was weighing heavily on me.
This experience got me thinking: What else in my life feels similarly overwhelming? Each additional task adds up, and before I know it, I’m overwhelmed by responsibilities. We often underestimate our limits while saying to ourselves, “How hard could this be?” Well, it turns out, pretty hard.
I believe many of us have been in this boat. As dedicated parents, we take on family, work, and community obligations, sometimes losing sight of our own well-being. Boundaries become blurred, and we push ourselves beyond our limits, thinking we can handle it all. Consequently, we find ourselves stretched too thin, unable to present our best selves.
So let’s cut ourselves some slack. What we accomplish is enough. It’s okay to let things slide sometimes. Focus on what truly matters, and when you feel like there’s not enough of you to go around, it’s perfectly acceptable to admit that. There’s no pride in being overly busy. Instead, let’s find value in dedicating our time and energy to what we cherish most, allowing ourselves moments of rest and relaxation.
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In summary, let’s embrace the imperfections and prioritize our well-being over the relentless pursuit of busyness. After all, sometimes, it’s perfectly fine to take a break.