Hey there, kids and partners! I need your attention for a moment. I know it might feel like we ask a lot from you at times, but really, it’s not that complicated to make us happy. For some reason, you often choose actions that drive us up the wall, and honestly, we’re getting a little weary of it. Believe it or not, we don’t enjoy losing our cool or throwing what you might call “adult tantrums.” We simply want a tranquil and joyful environment—so let’s work together!
Here are ten practical ways you can help keep mom from losing her mind every day.
- Dishes in the Sink, Please.
Seriously, I’m not even asking you to load the dishwasher. Just get those cups, plates, and bowls into the sink. Not under the couch, not on the counter, and definitely not in your bedroom. If you want to be a superstar, run some water on them too. - Clothes Belong in the Hamper.
If you expect clean clothes, then please put the dirty ones where they belong. Don’t leave them strewn about, making it a scavenger hunt for me. Just drop them in the designated “please wash me” bin. - Proper Hygiene Matters.
Let’s keep things clean, folks! If I’m doing your laundry, the last thing I want to deal with is skidmarks. Just make sure you wipe well; it’s a simple step that saves us both from embarrassment. - Don’t Forget the Garbage Disposal.
It’s as easy as flipping a switch. Why do I have to remind you? When you neglect it, the whole house gets an unpleasant odor, and that drives me a little crazy. - Flush the Toilet.
Here’s a fun fact: if my kids use the bathroom, they’ll flush a million times. But if it’s a more significant job, somehow, it gets left for everyone to “enjoy.” Spoiler alert: I’m not a fan. - Trash Goes in the Trash Can.
It doesn’t matter if it’s “just” a candy wrapper or a tag from a new sweater; it needs to go in the trash right away. Otherwise, I might find it later between the couch cushions, and that’s a surefire way to make me lose it. - Follow Through on Your Promises.
If you say you’ll take out the trash, please do it. If you’re not up for that responsibility, don’t make big promises. But if you commit to something, please keep your word. - Pay Attention When I Speak.
If I take the time to explain something important, like our week’s schedule, and you ask me the same question later, it’s going to drive me bananas. Please, just listen! - Return Borrowed Items.
Feel free to use my stuff—keys, makeup, whatever. But please return it to its rightful place. I don’t want to be late because you still have my keys. - Show Some Love.
It might seem trivial, but a simple “I love you” can go a long way. Love can really smooth over a lot of frustrations, even when I’m scraping dried yogurt out of a bowl you left in your room for far too long.
That’s it for now. If you want more insights on this topic, check out our other blog post at Home Insemination Kit. And if you’re looking for expert guidance, Make a Mom has great resources. Plus, for those navigating fertility challenges, Women’s Health is an excellent resource.
In summary, keeping mom sane is simpler than it seems—just a little cooperation goes a long way!