I know a woman named Linda in her 60s who confidently sports an undercut and flaunts oversized earrings. She looks incredible! There’s no way she woke up on her 50th birthday and thought, “Oh no, I’m too old to wear what I love; where are those polyester pants?” Linda is unapologetically herself. She embraces every part of her being, seeks no one’s approval, and doesn’t give a hoot about what anyone else is wearing. She’s too busy being her vibrant self to fret over fleeting trends.
Honestly, you can take your fashion rules and toss them aside. If you feel fabulous in something, that’s all that matters, regardless of what the fashion critics say. Heaven forbid we avoid horizontal stripes because we don’t fit the size 00 mold. And let’s get one thing straight: leggings are, without a doubt, pants. I wear mine all day paired with my favorite flannel, and I’m just as comfortable in them at bedtime. I refuse to adhere to anyone’s rules; I choose to wear whatever the heck I want.
Trying to fit into a predefined fashion box is as enjoyable as scrubbing the toilet. Wearing what you love, no matter your age or motherhood status, is liberating. If you feel like wearing that tiara your daughter insisted on at her tea party to the grocery store, go for it! You’ll likely bring joy to more faces than you can imagine.
I often hear women say things like, “I’m too old for this,” or “Is it appropriate for a mom to wear that?” Last time I checked, there’s no expiration date on women. No one’s asking you to abandon your beloved overalls! If you find joy in fashion, makeup, and hair, don’t stifle that part of yourself. With age comes wisdom and self-assurance, so this fabulous party of life is just getting started.
Motherhood or aging doesn’t mean you have to forget who you were before. What you wear can evoke memories of when you were a carefree teenager in your favorite jeans or when you were 23 and had the luxury of pampering yourself without juggling babysitters. And let’s be honest, if you want to throw on a blazer and heels over your yoga pants after a workout for a brunch with friends, you go right ahead! Plus, yoga pants give you the freedom to indulge a little.
If you love those over-the-knee boots and want to pair them with skinny jeans or your favorite leather jacket, wear them with pride. Who cares if you channel Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman? If you’re going to turn heads, you might as well do it in style.
I once read that women shouldn’t wear miniskirts past 35. Seriously? Are we supposed to hide our legs once we hit that milestone? That’s a disservice to all the women out there. Have you seen Halle Berry’s legs? And what about those shorter women who feel overwhelmed by long skirts? Women come in diverse, beautiful shapes and sizes, and how dull would it be if we all wore the same boring outfit every day? Embrace your individuality—be trendy, classic, or unique. Invest in pieces that resonate with you, even if they’re not currently “in style.”
If you think you need to skip the latest trends because you’re a mom or feel past your prime (spoiler alert: you’re not), challenge that idea. Who even makes these rules? And more importantly, why do we feel obligated to follow them?
Wear what makes you feel good. If a certain outfit boosts your confidence, that’s your cue to flaunt it. After all, confidence is always in vogue. So go out there and own your style, girl!
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In summary, don’t let age or motherhood dictate your style. Embrace what you love and wear it with confidence. Fashion rules are meant to be broken, so let your unique personality shine through!