It doesn’t matter who you are—your beauty, kindness, or intelligence holds no weight in his eyes. He will twist the meaning of love into something that feels good, but isn’t real, and somehow, you will start to believe him.
At first, he may seem like the ideal partner—the attentive listener, the protector. You’ll feel like you’ve hit the jackpot, but little do you know the cost of that ticket will be steep.
The trouble begins when he doubts you. You’ll find yourself trying to convince him that you’re unlike any other woman. Despite your reassurances, he remains skeptical. Having never been questioned before, you feel compelled to prove him wrong. You are good, you tell yourself. You must show him that.
He’ll shower you with affection one moment and then leave you in silence for days. He will praise you and then belittle you, claiming that his love is deeper than anyone else’s, even your friends and family. You’ll feel an ache inside, as if your heart is being crushed. Sleep will evade you, and food will lose its appeal. He’ll call you beautiful, then a disgrace. He’ll profess his undying love, only to say you’ve ruined his life.
Over time, it feels like he walks through life beside you, treating you as if you’re just a shadow. You’ll start to believe you are a ghost, staring in the mirror at a stranger. Maybe he’s right after all—you might not be good enough.
He’ll insist that no one loves you like he does, and soon enough, you’ll find yourself striving to be the best version of yourself, but it never seems to be enough. You are lost in his words. He’ll call you his beloved and then his misery, saying that you’re one of a kind, but also that it’s a curse.
In public, he’ll play the role of the devoted partner, while behind closed doors, he reveals his true colors. He’s not a thief in the conventional sense; he’s stealing your self-worth, convincing you that you aren’t who you think you are. Only he knows the ‘real’ you.
He is a master of disguise, embodying both charm and deception. One moment, he’s your ally, and the next, he’s eroding your sanity. If you dare to push back, he’ll turn it around on you, making you feel like the problem. You’ll start to doubt yourself, mirroring his untrusting nature.
He presents himself as the perfect gentleman—the guy everyone wishes would just find a good partner. But beneath the surface, there’s a predator, waiting to ensnare his next victim in the web of his false kindness. He’ll pull you under, drowning you in the very affection that was never genuine. When it’s too much, when you’re tired of being invisible, he’ll attempt to make a deal with you, locking eyes in a way that feels like a trap. Don’t fall for it. Look away and run. You are worthy. You always were.
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In summary, remember that you are worthy of genuine love and respect. It’s crucial to recognize when someone is undermining your self-worth and to take steps to reclaim your identity and happiness.