Let’s be honest: there are times when a simple gesture speaks volumes. Flipping someone off is my go-to way of expressing that I’m not interested in what they’re saying. Some people may label women who do this as unhappy or grumpy, but the reality is, we’re just expressing that we’re not up for a debate. Here are seven instances where my middle finger will make an appearance:
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Mansplaining
If you interrupt me to correct my words or condescend about my feelings, don’t expect a polite response. Instead, you’ll find my middle finger waving in your face while you try to explain that you’re not actually mansplaining. Newsflash: I’m not interested. -
Catcalling
Why do some men still think catcalling is effective? Spoiler alert: it’s not. Phrases like “Hey gorgeous, come here!” do nothing but earn you an eye roll and a finger salute. Do you really think this will get you anywhere? Perhaps you need someone to enlighten you on why it’s a terrible approach. Just stop. -
Telling Me to Smile
Women express joy on their terms, not because someone pressures us to do so. When you tell me to smile, you’re suggesting I should accommodate your discomfort. Guess what? That’s not my job. You’ll get a one-finger salute instead. -
Criticizing My Language
When you tell me to stop swearing, it only makes me want to get creative with my choice of words. I love to express myself freely, and swearing is part of that. Instead of focusing on my language, how about addressing more significant issues? -
“Act Like a Lady”
When you suggest I should act a certain way, it’s clear you want me to conform to your comfort levels. Sorry, but I’ll be myself, and if that makes you uncomfortable, then that’s your problem, not mine. Women are embracing their freedom to express themselves, so get used to it. -
Asking About My Outfit
Your curiosity about my clothing choices is unwarranted. I wear what makes me feel good, and it’s none of your business. Just as you wouldn’t want me to critique your fashion, please keep your opinions to yourself. -
Unwanted Parenting Advice
Unless I ask for your input, keep your parenting advice to yourself. We know how to seek out information when needed, from trusted sources to online communities. Your unsolicited suggestions are as welcome as a rainstorm on a sunny day.
So there you have it. My middle finger may not always convey my feelings perfectly, but it sure communicates my disdain for unwelcome opinions. It’s empowering to stand up for myself without wasting my breath explaining why your behavior is inappropriate. Ladies, don’t hesitate to use that middle finger when it feels right.
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Summary:
In a world where unsolicited opinions abound, it’s essential to know when to stand your ground. From mansplaining to unwanted advice, there are plenty of situations where a simple gesture can express your feelings and help reclaim your power. Embrace your voice and don’t be afraid to assert yourself.