Finding Joy in TV: A Shift from Drama to Comedy

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I used to revel in dramatic storytelling. If a film or show had a somber tone, promising to wrench my heart out and leave me emotionally drained, I was all in. I would gasp, weep, and lose myself in the sorrowful narratives that mirrored the darker sides of life. I appreciated the rawness of the “real” world, no matter how grim it was.

Then parenthood changed everything.

While I was pregnant with my first child, I dove into The Hunger Games series. The themes of children battling against each other felt hauntingly real. As my due date loomed and I neared the trilogy’s conclusion, I realized that this kind of intense drama was not something I could handle for a long time. Although dystopian fiction isn’t reality, my imaginative mind and sensitive heart wouldn’t allow me to separate the two. I was about to bring a new life into a world that had its share of challenges.

After my daughter was born, I found solace in lighthearted entertainment. Those late-night feedings turned into binge-watching sessions of The Office, and I revisited my favorite romantic comedies. I never finished Parenthood and now, as a mother of two, I can’t even think about starting This Is Us. I know it’s a touching series, but I can’t handle the tears when there’s already enough in my life that brings on the waterworks.

I realize that by steering clear of dark tales, I might be missing out on some remarkable art. However, I’m protecting my heart. With the overwhelming negativity in the world—often feeling tenfold compared to the positive news—this is my reality. I read about heartbreaking events like the crises in Aleppo, human trafficking, or the Flint water situation, and it deeply affects me. My children are growing up in this complex world, and I just can’t take on any additional sorrow, even from fiction.

With the tragedies that surround us, I prefer to indulge in feel-good comedies. When I finally get a moment to myself, I choose shows that uplift me instead of adding to my emotional burden. I crave laughter, playful antics, and clever humor that reminds me that the world isn’t solely filled with hardship. Life may not always be about joyous moments, but it certainly doesn’t need to be littered with despair.

Perhaps one day, when my kids are older or I find myself less emotionally vulnerable, I’ll return to the captivating world of drama. But for now, I know that embracing lighthearted content is what I need. Being a mom is challenging enough, and I don’t want to invite fictional struggles into my life that could amplify my worries. Instead, I’ll stick to cheerful comedies and uplifting films.

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In summary, my perspective on entertainment has shifted dramatically since becoming a parent. I prioritize light-hearted content that brings joy, steering clear of the heavy dramas that once captivated me. In a world filled with real-life challenges, I choose to focus on the positive and find laughter where I can.