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Embracing the Art of Lingering While My Kids Play
By: Lila Parker
As a busy mom, I often find myself racing against the clock. Last year presented me with significant challenges, leading to some transformative decisions in my life. Like many parents, I usually encourage my children to entertain themselves while I tackle my never-ending to-do list. I take pride in their ability to be imaginative and independent. They can create their own fun, whether it’s crafting, pretending, or exploring the simplicity of our home without needing extravagant toys.
However, there’s something I’ve realized that I’m not quite proud of—my tendency to rush away. I often set them up with activities and then dash off to check items off my list. Recently, I’ve made a conscious effort to change this cycle. (Let me be honest—this is tougher than it sounds! I’m someone who schedules my day to maximize productivity, even when I know it’s unrealistic.)
This shift has pleasantly surprised my kids. They look at me with confusion, asking, “Aren’t you busy?” or “What are you doing here?” It’s become clear to me that while engagement and play are essential, our children also crave our undivided presence, not in a hovering way, but in a genuine, “I’m here for you” manner.
When I choose to linger, I’m gifting myself—and them—an opportunity to connect. Even if it’s just for a brief 10 minutes, this moment is significant. It allows me to be emotionally and physically present without any distractions. I set aside my list, my phone, and just enjoy simply being with them. A quick glance or a smile from my eldest, or a Lego piece handed to me by my little one, reminds me of how swiftly they change.
I’m not rushing off to accomplish more important things; I’m embracing the beauty of lingering with my children. These moments are fleeting, and it’s vital to cherish them. If you’re interested in learning more about related topics, check out this insightful resource on pregnancy and home insemination, or explore fertility solutions from this authority on the subject.
In summary, I’m learning to value the simple act of lingering while my kids play, recognizing that these moments are just as important as any task on my to-do list.