As you celebrate your 4th birthday, I want to share some thoughts that I hope you’ll carry with you as you grow. First and foremost, you are a wonderful girl, and I truly mean that.
I know I can be a bit strict at times (okay, maybe a lot), but my intentions come from a place of love and care. I set high expectations for you because I see your potential, and sometimes I forget just how young you are. But you often rise to the occasion, and I am so proud of you for that!
I understand that there will be moments when you think I’m difficult, especially as you grow older. However, I believe we will build a strong relationship based on trust, respect, and unconditional love, without any need for childish talk.
You have a special connection with your dad, bonding over things like Legos, baseball, and superheroes—things I might not be as fond of. It makes me feel a bit out of the loop sometimes, but I know that this bond will help you grow into a confident woman. I look forward to the days when you both enjoy the same music, even if it means I’m on the outside looking in.
Your stubbornness can be a challenge, but I admire your eagerness to join in on adult activities, even when they seem dull. You love adventures, whether it’s traveling by plane or road, and you handle grocery shopping like a little pro. Not to mention, your appreciation for dry humor shows just how special you are!
I love that you dive into your favorite foods, especially clams, with such determination. And you always choose the finest cheese and salami when given the option. Your bravery shines through when you approach new people or ask questions without hesitation.
You have a beautiful way of referring to your little brother as “No-EEE” and your sister as “Me-Lee,” and I cherish how you willingly share your favorite snacks with them. I truly appreciate that you’ve never asked me to send them back; I know I would have at your age!
Remember, as you grow, staying true to yourself is the key to being liked by others. Never doubt your wonderful qualities or let appearances overshadow what’s on the inside.
Even when frustration gets the best of me, I want you to know it’s not a reflection of my pride in you. Sometimes, I can feel both angry and proud at the same time, and I’m still learning how to deal with those feelings.
You are destined to become an incredible woman—not just because of your achievements (which I know will be many), but because of your kind heart. I hope you find joy in your future work, just as I find joy in mine, even when it breaks my heart to say I’m busy.
I hope you can forgive me for sharing your photos on social media. I’ve tried to be considerate and only post things that you won’t mind in the future.
I know your birthday is still a few days away, but I just couldn’t wait to express how much you mean to me.
With endless love,
Mom
P.S. I realize I sometimes toss out your things without asking, and I appreciate your calm response when you catch me in the act. I do the same with your dad, so it’s something you both can bond over!
P.P.S. By the time you read this—if you do—you’ll understand that “shit” isn’t a bad word when used properly.
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In summary, remember that as you grow, being yourself is your greatest asset. You have so much to offer the world, and I am here to support you every step of the way.