“Everyone, relax. It’s just words.”
We’ve all heard this phrase, especially in the wake of controversial statements made by public figures. Recently, a candidate for office made headlines for boasting about his ability to kiss women without consent and “grab ’em by the pussy” simply because of his fame.
Yes, they were “just words.” However, if you think words don’t hold significant weight, you’re mistaken. Words are incredibly powerful. They matter—immensely.
The saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me,” has been a staple of childhood defense against bullying. Yet, research and countless personal testimonies reveal the harsh truth: that’s simply not accurate. Studies show that verbal bullying can alter brain chemistry in much the same way that physical abuse does. For many kids, the pain inflicted by words—whether from peers or online—can be so unbearable that they see no other way out.
What is Verbal Bullying?
So, what exactly is verbal bullying? Just words, right?
But it’s not only peers who can inflict harm with their words. A study from a prestigious institution indicates that verbal abuse from parents can be as damaging as physical or sexual abuse. Let me emphasize: hurtful words directed at a child can cause emotional and psychological harm that rivals physical pain.
In fact, the negative consequences of verbal abuse can be more severe than witnessing domestic violence or experiencing sexual abuse. What is verbal abuse? Just words.
The Power of Literature and Speech
Think back to a book that left a mark on you. A story that moved you to tears, frightened you, or forever changed your perspective? Books have the power to transport us, evoke emotions, and shape our beliefs. And what are books? Just words.
Consider Martin Luther King, Jr.’s iconic “I Have a Dream” speech. This monumental oration inspired a nation and played a pivotal role in the fight for racial equality. Many of us can recite lines from it, like “I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.” What is a speech? Just words.
On the other hand, think about the words used by historical figures like Adolf Hitler. While he committed horrific acts, he never physically killed anyone himself. Instead, he wielded the power of his words to incite national pride and instill fear and hatred against specific groups. His rhetoric manipulated an entire nation, leading to unimaginable atrocities. Just words?
The Impact of Words
Words have the capability to uplift or destroy, heal or harm. They can change lives, ignite conflicts, inspire movements, or manipulate the masses. Words create, transform, and define our reality—both individually and collectively.
So please, don’t minimize the significance of words. Don’t claim that boasting about the ability to assault women contributes nothing to a culture of disrespect and objectification. Don’t argue that laughing about inappropriate behavior has no bearing on character. A recorded moment of someone’s true self is far more than “just words.”
There are no “just” words; there are only words—words filled with meaning, power, and influence.
Further Reading
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Summary
Words hold incredible power and should never be dismissed as insignificant. They can inflict deep emotional harm or inspire monumental change. Recognizing the impact of words is essential in our interactions and understanding of societal issues.