Dear Mike,
I hope this finds you well. Let’s get straight to the point. Divorce can be a tough journey. Sometimes, it’s a mutual decision; other times, it’s a painful necessity born from betrayal. Unfortunately, you fall into the latter category. This separation is on you, and it’s an outcome of your actions that have hurt my friend, Lisa.
While she navigates this tumultuous time with admirable strength and grace, I want you to know how much anger I feel on her behalf. She’s managing to co-parent with you and put the needs of your children first, all while dealing with the fallout of your choices. You both deserve credit for working together during this challenging transition. But let’s be real – just because she’s handling this with dignity doesn’t mean I’m not seething inside.
I can’t help but feel furious at you for causing her so much pain. You’ve made her question her worth and left her grappling with deep feelings of sadness and confusion. She’s stayed up countless nights crying, worrying about how this will affect her relationship with the kids she adores. It’s heartbreaking to see her struggle, and all of this is because of your actions.
The burden of co-parenting with you during school activities and family events is a heavy one for her. She’s working hard to help your children process their feelings and to maintain a sense of normalcy, all while hiding her own hurt. It’s a lot to handle, especially when she’s been blindsided by this whole situation.
So, while she takes the high road, I can’t help but feel the need to express my frustration. I want to tell you that I truly hope your new place has a serious roach problem – one that rains down on you when you least expect it. All in good fun, of course, when the kids aren’t around.
My job is to support Lisa, validate her feelings, and remind her that she’s going to come out stronger on the other side of this. She will find happiness again, and I will be right there, cheering her on as she embraces her newfound freedom. She doesn’t need a man to complete her, and this is her year to shine.
And when the dust settles, she will forgive you, and I’ll be over here waving my middle finger in your direction. If you find yourself with a shipment of roaches, just know I’m not involved. Seriously, I have no idea what you’re talking about.
Best,
Your friend in frustration,
The BFF