I truly enjoy my friendships, but when it comes down to it, I’d much rather be spending time with my family. After all, I put a lot of thought and effort into choosing the partner I wanted to journey through life with, and he’s the one I cherish the most. Plus, I’ve dedicated time and energy to shaping my children into individuals I genuinely want to be around. We’re all a work in progress, but my family will always be my priority.
Often, I forgo nights out with friends for cozy evenings at home. Friday nights are reserved for our family tradition of Project Runway Junior and popcorn, and yes, we embrace our dorkiness. On Saturdays, I find more joy in being with my family rather than hitting brunch with friends. After a week of managing their schedules, reminding them to clean up, finish homework, and be polite, I relish those moments to simply enjoy their company before they rush off again.
Sometimes, I choose family simply because I can enjoy my time without the need for pants! Family vacations hold a special charm for me, too. Even when they’re being whiny or difficult, I understand their quirks—who gets hangry or who needs to eat the moment they wake up. We know each other’s rhythms and idiosyncrasies as if they were our own.
I choose them because they embody everything I hoped for, even when I didn’t know what that was. They understand me completely—I’m cheerful (and maybe a little obnoxious) in the mornings, and I tend to fall asleep halfway through movies at night. They know my love for peanut butter cups, that I sometimes hover anxiously during pool time, and that clutter makes me cranky. They accept all my flaws and still love me.
Despite their lengthy jokes, sticky faces, and off-key renditions of our favorite songs, they are far more entertaining than any concert or fancy show. I recognize how quickly time is passing; one moment he’s ten, and the next she’s five. I’m terrified to blink again, so I’ll be here with toothpicks holding my eyes open!
We can have fun exploring and being active, but our favorite days are often the lazy ones spent lounging together. There’s something so special about blowing up an air mattress and piling on each other with snacks, movies, and books. I will always choose those moments.
I choose them, and they choose me—at least for a while longer. Soon enough, they’ll be off with their friends and driving their own cars, and I know I’ll shed a few tears. But for now, they are mine. Like any family, we have our ups and downs, but we’re in this together.
To anyone who may feel I’m missing out on social events, I apologize. I know I might miss some things, but I have this precious window of time to choose these little people, and I’m determined to savor every moment. If you’re interested in exploring more about family planning, check out this insightful resource on home insemination or visit Make A Mom for expert insights. Don’t forget to check out Kindbody for valuable information on pregnancy and home insemination.
In summary, while friendships are meaningful, the time spent with family is irreplaceable and fleeting. Embracing those everyday moments together is what truly matters.