Family Finds Closure Through Unfiltered Obituary for Father

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When it comes to obituaries, most tend to highlight the good in someone’s life. However, one family chose to take a different route, opting for a brutally honest farewell to their father, who they described as “toxic.”

Samuel Turner, who passed away at 74 in Galveston, Texas, after a long battle with cancer, left behind two children, several grandchildren, and an ex-wife. None seemed particularly inclined to remember him fondly. Instead of the typical glowing tribute, his daughter penned an obituary that candidly reflected the turmoil he brought into their lives. The obituary was so striking that it reportedly crashed the funeral home’s website due to the attention it garnered.

The obituary captures the family’s sentiments, stating, “Samuel’s life served no other obvious purpose; he did not contribute to society in any meaningful way and had few redeeming qualities besides occasional sarcastic humor.” It continues, “He will be missed only for what he failed to be: a loving father, husband, or friend.”

The Houston Chronicle elaborated on Samuel’s troubling history, which included legal issues such as assault and violating restraining orders. The family’s decision to share their truth about him was not only a form of release but also a way to confront the pain they experienced. “He exemplified the worst in parenting, compounded by mental health struggles and a lifelong commitment to substance abuse and womanizing,” the obituary reads.

Samuel’s daughter expressed that her father would have appreciated the honesty in her writing. “He hated deception, so I think he would understand why I chose to portray him accurately. This obituary was about healing; ignoring his negative impact doesn’t make it disappear,” she explained. She went on to express that she would have preferred support during her childhood rather than the concern now shown by those commenting on the obituary.

In a particularly cutting remark, the family indicated they would not hold a funeral. “There will be no services, no prayers, and no apologies for the pain he inflicted. Samuel’s remains will be cremated and stored in the barn until the donkey’s wood shavings run out,” they stated, adding a layer of dark humor to their grief.

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In summary, this family’s honest obituary reflects their painful experiences and desire for closure, challenging the norms of how we remember our loved ones.