Planning a trip to IKEA with your significant other? Brace yourselves—you’re likely to end up in an argument. Even if you manage to escape the store without any disagreements, the real test comes when it’s time to put the furniture together. It’s not just a coincidence; it’s practically a phenomenon.
In a recent feature for Valentine’s Day, a leading psychology expert, Dr. Emily Carter, shared insights on why IKEA can be a relationship trap. “Complicated shopping trips, especially those involving two people, can easily lead to conflict,” she noted. With countless options to choose from, there’s the added challenge of balancing both partners’ preferences, creating a perfect recipe for tension.
As the article explains, frustration can escalate quickly. Getting lost in the winding paths of IKEA or feeling overwhelmed by the crowds might cause you to lash out at your partner. Dr. Carter emphasizes, “You might find yourself saying things you don’t mean or acting less kindly than you typically would.”
IKEA suggests that couples peruse their catalog ahead of time to streamline the decision-making process. “While shopping, couples can enjoy a meal or a drink in our restaurant to discuss their choices,” a spokesperson said. However, let’s be real—no amount of Swedish meatballs can save you from the chaos of assembling that new piece of furniture. The challenges start with navigating the showroom, possibly leading to arguments about which direction to go, and only intensify when you try to fit that enormous box into your car. And just wait until you open the instruction manual—good luck deciphering the wordless diagrams. One partner will likely end up in tears.
Furniture Assembly Guide for Couples
To help you gauge which IKEA furniture assembly might suit your relationship, we’ve created a handy guide based on previous studies that highlight IKEA’s strain on relationships. Consider this:
- MOLGER Step Stool
Difficulty Level: Novice
Instruction Manual Length: 8 pages
Post-Completion Thoughts: High five! - NORNAS Bench
Difficulty Level: Beginner
Instruction Manual Length: 16 pages
Post-Completion Thoughts: “Why is this so hard for you? Just follow the pictures!” - HEMNES 8-Drawer Dresser
Difficulty Level: Advanced
Instruction Manual Length: 34 pages
Post-Completion Thoughts: “Where did these 18 extra screws come from? Did I really need a monkey for this?!” - LIATORP Storage Unit
Difficulty Level: NO
Instruction Manual Length: 40 pages
Post-Completion Thoughts: “I can’t even look at you right now.”
The best way to safeguard your relationship might be to simply hire an assembly service, which is a well-kept secret in the world of retail. Did you know that’s an option? But then, what’s the point of buying affordable furniture?
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In summary, IKEA can indeed be a challenging experience for couples, often leading to disagreements during both shopping and assembly. Understanding the potential pitfalls can help couples navigate the process more smoothly.
