Dear Sweetheart,
Welcome to this chaotic world I’ve brought you into. I’m truly sorry that the society you’ll grow up in often fails to recognize women as equals. There will be those who underestimate you simply based on your gender, believing that you’re “less-than” because of the circumstances of your birth.
I regret that your worth may be judged by the clothes you choose to wear. Your intelligence, kindness, and courage may go unnoticed if you don’t fit someone else’s idea of “appropriate.” There will be individuals who try to shame you, labeling you with hurtful names like “slut” or “whore,” all while pretending to uphold standards of decency. Remember, it’s their understanding that needs to evolve, not yours. Stay true to yourself, always.
I’m sorry that you may find it necessary to prove your intelligence in a world where some might think having a vagina somehow diminishes your intellect. Even when you provide brilliant insights, there will be those who dismiss you as “too sensitive” or “overly emotional.” Don’t let their ignorance silence you. Keep advocating for yourself and others.
It pains me to acknowledge that your brother may have certain advantages in life simply because he is male. If both of you take on the same role in a workplace, it’s likely he’ll earn more for identical work due to outdated biases. You may be passed over for promotions despite your qualifications, while he receives accolades that are equally yours. I want you to be ready for these challenges, so you can hold your head high and fight for what you deserve. You are strong, and don’t ever forget it.
I’m sorry that society may perceive your emotions as a weakness because I’ve taught you it’s okay to express yourself freely. I regret that your natural bodily cycles, like menstruation, may lead some to unfairly judge your behavior and character. Never let anyone make you feel ashamed of your body.
If you choose to become a parent, you might face criticism for working outside the home, with people mistakenly believing you are neglecting your children. Conversely, if you decide to stay at home, some may think you’re taking the easy way out. Choose the path that resonates with you, whether that means working or staying home. Discover what ignites your passion and pursue it wholeheartedly.
I’m sorry that the world you’ve been born into may not always grant you the respect you deserve. However, I want you to understand that there are countless individuals fighting for change. Many of us are rallying together, advocating for your rights, and standing up against injustice. We’re pushing for reproductive rights, equal pay, and an end to victim-blaming. We want to pave a better future for you and generations to come.
While the journey ahead may be tough, filled with obstacles and ignorance, hold on to hope. We are fighting for you because being a woman is not a burden; it is a gift. We are resilient, intelligent, and fearless—and so are you.
So go out there and make your mark on this world. You have everything it takes to succeed.
With love and strength,
Your Biggest Advocate
P.S. If you want to learn more about the journey of parenthood and the options available, check out this insightful post on home insemination. It’s a valuable resource for understanding your choices.