The notorious “terrible twos” used to be the ultimate challenge for parents, that is, until the era of threenagers arrived. Can I get an “ugh”? Threenagers are known for their unpredictable moods, intense emotions, and sometimes irrational decisions, testing the limits of even the most patient parents. But here’s the kicker — I genuinely believe that threenagers are absolutely fantastic.
Now, I can already hear the skepticism in your thoughts. You might assume that I’m just an older mom reminiscing about the past through a nostalgic lens. It’s easy for parents to look back with rose-colored glasses, right? A mother might fondly recall the moments spent with a newborn while conveniently forgetting the sleepless nights and endless cries. Or a parent of a teenager could lament over how trivial diaper changes felt compared to the stress of waiting for their teen to come home. And let’s not forget the empty-nesters, who preach about savoring every moment because it all passes so quickly! (Cue the eye roll.)
But hear me out. I’m not one to get lost in idealistic memories. Honestly, I usually find myself enjoying the phase we’re currently in. My ovaries don’t flutter at the sight of a newborn, nor do I long for diaper days despite the charm of squishy baby legs and delightful coos. My kids are now in a sweet spot at ages 7 and 10, making it easy to appreciate this moment — but I have to admit, I have a soft spot for 3-year-olds, and it was just a short while ago that I had one under my roof.
In my opinion, threenagers don’t deserve the bad reputation they’ve been given. Yes, they can be prone to emotional extremes and bouts of irrationality. They can get worked up over the tiniest things, and any parent who has engaged in a 20-minute debate over what day it is (and let’s be honest, we’ve all been there) can attest to the challenges of engaging with a 3-year-old. They can be moody, unpredictable, and emotional — but then again, so can I! Maybe that’s why we connect so well.
Why Threenagers Are Amazing
Let me share why I believe threenagers are simply amazing. Three-year-olds are engaging, full of laughter, and naturally curious. While they do have their fair share of meltdowns, they are small enough to be whisked away from a situation, making it easier to handle than trying to reason with older kids who are bickering over a tablet. They possess the sweetness of toddlers, yet they often have a bit more predictability — many are potty-trained and can sleep in their own beds on a regular schedule (with a side note: I said often, not always). They can hold conversations, share jokes, and express their own likes and dislikes.
Three-year-olds are bundles of energy, ready to embrace life. They wear tutus and rainbow tights, don their astronaut helmets, and sport tiaras as if they own the universe — because, in their minds, they truly do. They mix and match every accessory from their dress-up box, flaunting multiple princess dresses simultaneously. To them, there are no “boy things” or “girl things,” only what brings them joy — it’s a delightful IDGAF attitude.
While threenagers may cry easily and can be dramatic, they also laugh and love just as readily. They are often seen as unreasonable, but they possess a profound emotional awareness and embrace the complexities of feelings in our chaotic world. Their perspective is painted in countless shades rather than simple black and white, creating a vibrant way of experiencing life.
Sure, parenting a 3-year-old can be challenging, but every stage of childhood comes with its own unique hurdles. Despite their ups and downs, threenagers embody hope, optimism, and the full spectrum of human emotion. Every day is an adventure filled with joy and spontaneity for a 3-year-old, and that’s what makes this age so incredibly special.
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Summary
Threenagers, often misunderstood, are a delightful age filled with energy, laughter, and a unique perspective on life. They may be challenging at times, but their sweet, vibrant personalities make them incredibly special. It’s essential for parents to embrace this stage and enjoy the ride.