As someone who aspires to be a minimalist, my seasonal cleaning ritual usually unfolds like this: I daydream about pristine drawers, bare countertops, and airy rooms. Then reality hits—I realize we possess an overwhelming amount of junk. I lose my cool and start barking orders at my family, insisting they need to toss things out. Ultimately, I come to the disheartening conclusion that it’s all futile. I resign myself to the fact that my home will resemble the aftermath of a clearance sale at a toy store for the foreseeable future. So, I mutter “Forget this” and throw in the towel.
By now, I can predict when these “Time to declutter!” meltdowns will strike. There’s the pre-holiday purge, spurred by an impending flood of unwanted gifts, followed by a freak-out over where to put everything after the holidays. There’s the spring cleaning frenzy, motivated by the fact that everyone else seems to be decluttering, and then there’s the despair that comes after binge-watching home renovation shows, making me feel inadequate about my living space. And of course, there are the frequent outbursts fueled by hormones, wondering why I seem to be the only one doing anything around here.
No matter the occasion, the cycle remains the same. I start off with high hopes and ambitious goals. I cheerfully announce, channeling my inner cheerleader, “Alright, team! Today we’re going to clean, declutter, and donate! Let’s do this!” My family just stares at me, wide-eyed, before mumbling, “But do we have to?”
Yes, my lovely hoarding offspring, you do.
We pull out trash bags and gather boxes. What follows is a few hours (or more realistically, minutes) of sorting through clutter. We attempt to sort out trash and items for donation. Books are placed on shelves, and clothes are folded—albeit temporarily.
But soon enough, the remnants of past poor choices resurface to torment me. An old broken hockey set, countless baseball cards, and the infamous Cozmo robot remind me of the questionable decisions I made while dealing with pre-holiday stress. Why did I ever think those were good ideas?
Before long, I’m drenched in sweat, and the space looks worse than before because everything is pulled out for sorting. Irritation sets in, and I start to think that maybe moving might just be the solution.
As my kids become engrossed in long-forgotten toys, I find myself in a mini existential crisis. How did we gather so much stuff? There are children out there with no toys at all, and here we are with 19 X-Wing fighters and about 743 Pokémon cards. Why can’t I part with that wedding makeup from 13 years ago? When will I ever re-read Cervantes? And those low-rise jeans? Who even am I?
Enough is enough! I resolve to go full-on KonMari minimalist. Our family will scale back so much that we could fit into a tiny house. All we have is just “stuff” that doesn’t spark joy. I even consider adopting a Buddhist philosophy of non-attachment—this should be the answer.
But wait! What if I need that turquoise eyeliner someday? What if my son notices his rare Charizard card is missing? And those X-Wing fighters could be worth something one day, right? At least that’s what my husband keeps saying.
Maybe I just need to change my approach. But I’ve tried every organization hack out there. I’ve bought storage bins, bookshelves, and even a fancy label maker to help me get organized.
Here’s the harsh truth: good intentions don’t magically create clean spaces, and I’m inherently lazy. I detest cleaning, and despite my aspirations for organization, I end up buried beneath a mountain of broken toys, old baseball cards, and dismembered action figures.
In the end, all I’ve accomplished is a profound loathing for my home. It will never resemble something out of a home renovation show—unless you count chipped paint and crooked frames as “shabby chic.” Even worse, my family’s messiness becomes impossible to ignore. Clean windows only highlight the grime on the sills, and cleaning under the stove and fridge serves as a reminder that my family could easily be mistaken for a herd of swine. And as for the light fixtures? They’ve become an insect graveyard. Some truths are better left undiscovered.
Forget moving; I’d rather burn the whole place down and start fresh. But that’s not feasible, so I give up. Instead, I’ll just shove everything into a closet, pour myself a glass of wine, and retreat outside, away from the clutter and chaos that my family creates. Mission accomplished. Task complete.
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Summary
Spring cleaning can feel like an insurmountable task filled with frustration and chaos. Despite the best intentions to declutter and organize, the reality often reveals a mountain of accumulated junk and messy family habits. It’s a cycle of high hopes, followed by irritation and eventual resignation to clutter. Sometimes, stepping back and simply enjoying a moment of peace is the best solution.