Growing a human is no small feat. Your body goes through all kinds of changes that can leave you feeling unattractive and utterly exhausted. Meanwhile, your partner still seems eager to maintain that physical connection with you. Some women might embrace intimacy during pregnancy, but not everyone feels the same way.
Meet Jenna, an Australian blogger and soon-to-be mom of four. In her recent Facebook post, she shares her surprise at her husband’s desire for intimacy as she approaches her third trimester. If you’ve ever felt similarly, you’re definitely not alone.
Jenna kicks off her post with a no-frills acknowledgment: “Let’s not sugarcoat it—pregnant sex.” Exactly. It’s a miracle if you’re even interested, so let’s keep it simple. She humorously notes, “You know there are women who thrive during pregnancy, loving every bit of affection. But then there’s people like me.”
As Jenna hits the 30-week mark, she reflects on how fleeting that brief period of enjoyment was. “We make the effort,” she muses, recalling her promises to embrace pregnancy differently this time around. “I’ll be the ultimate sex goddess—I said.”
Reality check: Jenna now feels like a “beached whale,” sweaty and sporting a panty liner—definitely not for the reasons you might think. With her belly stretched and her body transformed, she describes herself as “leaking, stinking, and hairy,” and she jokes about her last shave being a less than thorough experience. Still, her husband calls her beautiful, which leaves her scratching her head in disbelief.
“What’s wrong with this guy?” Jenna wonders aloud. “I’m at my worst, but he still wants me.” This sentiment resonates with many women who find it hard to believe that their partners are still attracted to them during late pregnancy. She wonders if her husband is just naturally drawn to pregnant women or perhaps he’s just an incredibly supportive partner—either way, she’s grateful to have him.
To all the partners out there who make us feel loved, even when we don’t feel beautiful—thank you! Your support means the world to us as we navigate this challenging but incredible journey.
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In summary, Jenna’s candid reflections on pregnancy and intimacy highlight the struggles many women face during this unique time. From feeling unattractive to the surprising ongoing attraction from partners, her post is a humorous reminder that love and intimacy can persist, even when life gets complicated.