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A Note to My Friends with Living Mothers
Dear friends who still have their mothers,
Time can be a thief, taking away those we love far too soon. For me, it was nearly ten months from the moment my mother received her cancer diagnosis until I had to say goodbye. Cancer, in its cruel way, steals not just health but also the time we have to cherish one another. One moment, we are planning for the future, and in the blink of an eye, we are thrust into a battle we never expected to fight.
I never thought I would have to navigate life without my mom at this stage. Her loss came so suddenly, leaving me grappling with a reality I wasn’t prepared for. Despite my faith giving me peace, this Mother’s Day is particularly poignant for me as I find myself celebrating as a mother without my own mother by my side. I will receive heartfelt cards and gifts, but I can’t give them back. I can’t express my gratitude for her lessons, both the beautiful and the challenging. I can’t share with her the profound impact she had on my life as a mother, a wife, and a woman.
So, dear friends who are fortunate enough to still have your mothers,
Whether you share a close bond or there’s some distance between you, take the time to reach out to her this week.
Whether your views align or you often find yourselves at odds, look into her eyes and tell her how much she means to you.
Whether she has showered you with love or you’ve felt a lack of warmth, let her know how much you appreciate her, and linger in that moment of connection.
Whether she’s been a guiding light or a lesson in what not to do, share with her what you’ve learned from her journey.
Despite her being imperfect, the fact that she is still here holds immense potential for both of you. Call her, hold her close, and envelop her in your love, regardless of any baggage that may exist.
If you have been estranged, reach out for reconciliation. If you feel indifferent, make an effort to compromise. If life has you busy, prioritize spending time together. If you’re reserved, show her affection. And if you already express love easily, double down on that generosity.
Last year, I never imagined I would celebrate Mother’s Day without my mom. Please, don’t let another moment pass without connecting with yours.
Wishing you all a Happy Mother’s Day. May you find the grace to give and receive love abundantly.
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Summary: This heartfelt message encourages those with living mothers to cherish their relationships, reach out, and express love during Mother’s Day. The author reflects on her own loss while urging friends to connect with their mothers, regardless of their relationship dynamics.
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