I’ll be upfront—I’ve been labeled a “crazy woman” more times than I can count. Unfortunately, it seems that many women have faced similar accusations at some point in their lives. I’ll own the part about being difficult at times; I’m not always sunshine and rainbows. But I refuse to be dismissed as “crazy” for expressing legitimate feelings like anger, frustration, or sadness, emotions that some men find unsettling.
It’s time to stop calling women crazy. It’s neither charming nor humorous, and, more importantly, it’s just plain wrong. What you might perceive as craziness is often a woman asserting her confidence. Women are frequently expected to remain silent—whether during a Super Bowl party or a congressional hearing. If a woman shares a viewpoint that contradicts the prevailing sentiment, her opinions are dismissed as irrationality.
The truth is, it takes immense courage to speak out when women are often talked over, ignored, or subjected to condescending explanations. What you label as crazy may very well be her simply being fed up with the nonsense and asserting her right to speak her mind.
What you might perceive as craziness is usually a woman’s passion. Consider the woman who has been an unwavering presence at rallies, making calls to her representatives, or advocating for marginalized communities. She’s the one who challenges the status quo, whether at PTA meetings or social gatherings. Some may call her crazy for her relentless pursuit of justice and equality, but in reality, she embodies passion and bravery. She’s not crazy; she’s an inspiration.
Additionally, what some interpret as craziness might just be a woman being vocal. Yes, women can be the loudest voices in the room, and some view that as disruptive or irritating. The unfortunate reality is that women often have to raise their voices to ensure they’re heard in a society that tends to prioritize male opinions. This doesn’t mean we’re crazy; it means we’re determined.
It’s disheartening to realize that our thoughts and feelings can be invalidated with a single derogatory term like “crazy.” When our views challenge the status quo, we’re often deemed overly emotional, our words dismissed as mere hormonal fluctuations. This has to change.
We’re choosing to make our voices heard. And if that involves raising our volume to ensure you listen, then so be it. In case you need a reminder, it’s 2023, and if your only response to a woman is to label her as crazy because of her menstrual cycle, then it would be best to stay silent. Such remarks are not only immature but also show a lack of respect. A woman’s menstrual health is personal, and unless you are her doctor, it’s not your business to comment on it.
You can call a woman confident, strong, passionate, or brave. If you choose to label her loud or relentless, that’s on you. But it’s time to stop using “crazy” as a catch-all term whenever we challenge your comfort zone.
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In summary, let’s work towards a culture that appreciates women for their confidence, passion, and vocality rather than dismissing them as “crazy.” The conversation must evolve to recognize the strength and determination of women as they seek to be heard and respected.