Pause everything you’re doing right now. Grab your phone and reach out to your mother. Do it today—not tomorrow, not next week, and certainly not just on special occasions. Make the call now. Put her first in your thoughts for once.
Trust me, she doesn’t see it coming. She’s not expecting your call at all, and you can bet her mind is on you right now. She wonders what you’re up to and how life is treating you. Is your well-being okay? Are you being careful with yourself and those around you? She’s likely recalling moments when you weren’t so cautious, and it makes her heart race. As she sorts through laundry, she might suddenly remember the time you went bungee jumping during your travels abroad, and she’s left with that familiar wave of anxiety.
She’s concerned about your capacity to love and be loved, hoping you’re generous and polite, and showing kindness to others. She’s probably thinking about your job and if finances are causing you stress. “Do you need any money?” crosses her mind. Yes, she still thinks like that, so feel free to roll your eyes.
Your mother wonders if her words and lessons resonate with you. Do you hear her voice echoing in your thoughts, just as she can still remember your innocent kindergarten chatter? She once was a young mother full of dreams, and even now, she wishes for your happiness in every aspect of your life.
Make the Call
So, make the call. Tell her you love her and let those heartfelt words spill out. When she starts firing off her usual questions, pause her. Gently tell her to hold on for a moment. This conversation is about her, not you. You’re calling to check in on her, to see how she’s feeling and what’s going on in her world. She’ll likely respond with, “Why wouldn’t I be happy, dear?” because she wants to shield you from worry.
This time around, focus on being present for her, just as she has always been for you. Show her the same attention she’s given you throughout your life. Let her know that you hear her voice in your head, filled with love, encouragement, and wisdom. You’re calling to remind her that sometimes, her voice is the one that stands out most clearly.
Ask her opinion about life, about the world; she’ll light up with joy and carry that smile for the rest of the day. Your mother is full of wisdom and experiences worth sharing. Just ask her. Your inquiries will fill her heart with happiness and uplift her spirit in ways you may not fully grasp. Your interest and attention are far more valuable than a card or a perfunctory call on a designated holiday like Mother’s Day.
Remember Her Every Day
Remember, she’s your mother every day, but she’s also an individual with her own life and dreams.
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In Summary
Take a moment to connect with your mother today. Show her that you care by asking about her life and thoughts. Your call will mean the world to her, and it’s a reminder that she remains an important part of your life every day.